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"For if a man, think of himself as something when he is nothing, he has deceived himself. But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another." (link)
I take it as something like… A man shouldn’t think highly of himself when he doesn’t do anything for what he has only when he does work for what he has should he be happy.
A longer explanation, I don’t know what chapter this is in but I think of it as something maybe like a man has slaves who do his work for him so he shouldn’t think highly of himself but when he actually does his own work is when he should be happy.
Does that make any sense? Basically don’t think highly of yourself if you’ve done nothing to show for it.


okay so i have been having weird dreams lately. but some background info about me..
17f, i have a boyfriend.. 16m [we're 4 days away from 7 months]
one of my dreams..
im in the car, in the backseat, its really sunny outside, it looks like im in new mexico or something, although i've never been there. my sister is sitting next to me with her volleyball uniform on and my mom is driving in the front. then we get to this hotel or motel and we get out and i see this ghetto girl that goes to my school, jessica. [i dont talk to her in real life] and this asian girl who is named megan.. [but i dont even know a megan in real life] my sister and my mom take their stuff and head into the motel, and im just talking to megan and jessica and im like, so what are you guys doing here? and jessica says, "nothing." they are sitting in the back of a truck, and im like okay well i have to go. then i take a gray adidas bag and a purple flower bag and head inside. in the lobby i see my mom and my sister, and they're going in an elevator, i rush inside, but then my sister disapears and its just me and my mom with like 4 other women in the elevator. im holding my bags at my feet, then 3 of us get off. my mom, me, and another woman. my mom and i are halfway down the hallway when i realize i left my adidas bag in the elevator.. i run back, screaming for them to hold the door open, so the lady who walked out with me and my mom goes bakwards and opens the door, but no one is in there and my bag is gone. so i start crying and panicking and i go back to my mom and im like, ITS GONE! ALL MY STUFF IS GONE! and my mom says, "well why would you put it on the floor like that?" so then i walk away from my mom and go into a different hallway, and i go into a room with a lady in it and im like, have you seen my bag? and shes like, "no sorry." so then i run outside and i see megan and jessica, and i ask them if theyve seen my bag, and they say no. then jessica walks away and me and megan get onto a yellow schoolbus. and im asking her what happened to my bag and shes like, i cant tell you. and im like please! my grandmas necklaces are in there and they mean alot to me [but whats going through my head is lie, you need to lie to get her to tell you] so then megan goes, okay jessica took it because she wants your boyfriend and shes mad that you have him. and im like, where is it? and megan goes, in her house, but ill get it for you. and im like, megan dont get in trouble! and then jessica strolls in and sits next to us and is like hi what are you talking about and i look at megan who looks terrified and i go, "megan are you mad at me?" and then i walk off the bus. then i go to the back of the hotel and theres a pool, and i call my byfriend who has this low whispery voice and he says, "hey baby" and im like, "you know jessica?" and hes like snoring on the phone. and i keep calling his name then finaslly hes like, what? sorry im tired and im like, "you know jessica?" and hes like, "yes why" and im like, "she stole my bag because she wants you." and then i see my aunt in her car and shes like, "is your mom here?" and i said, "yeah shes inside." then i walk away from her.

but thats all i can remember. can anyone tell me what this means? sorry its so long, i really appreciate it though.
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well, theres alot going on here...

People who believe in reincarnation say that some dreams have to do with something that happened in a past life...
Maybe your name was megan, or one of your friends was a megan. Maybe you lost something important in a past life? How your sister disappears, maybe you lost a sister in a past life. who really knows?

And another thing, maybe you are afraid of losing your boyfriend. You lose something in your dream, and you said someone in your dream wanted your boyfriend. and in real life you are afraid of losing him.

There are so many different things it could be, and im not a dream interperating expert, but those are my thoughts.

I hope I helped.



Can someone explain all of the denominations of Wicca, and whats the difference between wiccan and pagan?

Right now I'm just doing my research but I've considered becoming a wiccan or pagan but I'm skeptical about the magic part because I don't believe in that. I was raised in a non-religious/christian home (celebrate christmas/easter but was never forced or asked to go to church unless i wanted to which I have with friends and for Christmas Eve mass and that sort of thing).

Also I don't know if I'd want to become a pagan or wiccan because (at least where I live) its associated with some really really weird people. And I'd consider myself a preppy person (Abercrombie, American Eagle, typical prep). If you lined all of my friends up in a row I would not be the one that you would guess to be the wiccan. I know that shouldn't matter but all the sites I found are really gothic looking.

Anyway, any advice or information would be appreciated. Like I said, I'm still just doing research. (link)
ok All pagans are wiccan, but not all wiccans are pagans.
wiccan is like witchcraft, and pagans worship nature.
they dont all use magic, but they believe in the forces of nature and believe in multiple gods that are presented by nature.

they dont have to be gothic, it all depends on the person and what they believe. a lot of people do like gothic colors. lol.

I was raised catholic. im only 15, but i have researched paganism and wiccam and i plan to get into that when i am older. i would suggest keep researching, go to the library or keep researching on the internet.

i hope i have helped, and good luck.



SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT IM FREAKED OUT!!

well in all my pictures i have a little white smudge. its usually by my head. and when people come over they are always like "whoa i just saw a flash out of the corner of my eye!" and i se it sometimes too, and i dont tell them about it so they cant know that i also see it. and it hasnt recently started. its been like that for as long as i can remember. and sometimes things move unexplained around me, like things laying on the floor with nothing around it, once my computer chair rolled back while i was sittingin it, that freaked me out alot. windows shut and open. could a spirit be attatched to me? im a skeptic just like many and ive resorted to thinking theres a spririt attatched to me. ive eliminated all other logical explanations, like camera faultiness, or wind blowing or things like that and most of the time it makes no sense.
this is scaring me, tell me what you all know!
thank you! (link)
it could and probably is a spirit. Most spirits that stay after death are gaurdians. It is probably that. And dont be freaked out, your not the only one with a sprit/gaurdian. My friend has one.

But also, before i read the whole story, the flash and thing in pictures could be your aura. That is a light around you, that tells your emotion or state of being. Some people have the ability to pick up your aura, and cameras catch pictures of them too. Those are the only two things I can think of but dont be scared.
Dont be afraid or scared of it. If it is a spirit, it is probably more likely to help you and protect you, than it is to hurt you.

I hope i helped and i hope you figure out what it is!


How come in the bible an angel comes to josef and tells him that mary will be giving birth to a son called Immanuel - but then he ended up being named Jesus?

Thanks, I'm just curious :) (link)
its Emmanuel, and they are the same... jesus is emanuel! i dont know how to explain it, but thats all i know!
hope i helped!


14/f

i'm not really religious at all. my family doesn't go to church or anything and one day my parents found out i don't really believe in god. and they kinda like freaked and said we're going to start going to church and stuff [we never did]/ k so i have some questions about all this religion stuff.

-who wrote the bible?

-i mean really how is it possible that theres some great god up in the sky?

-who all thought of this? like there had to be someone who came up with this?

-who created these so called sins?

-if being gay is a "sin", why did this god create them?

-how do people know anything of what they looked like or did?



thanks =] (link)
Many people wrote the bible. They are 2 different parts of the bible. the old testament (written before jesus) and the new testament written about jesus's life.

i'm not sure how it is possible that theres some great god up in the sky. but i believe!

idk who thought of it... it just was there, it was always there...

no one created sin, there just is sin.

i dont think it is a sin to be gay. i know gay people, they are really nice. i dont know why people have to think that its a sin!

and im sorry but i dont understand your last question!

i hope i helped you a little bit!




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