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Q: I'm Christian and I know lust is wrong. That's why i was super-relieved when I got more into studying the Bible and whatnot and I was distracted by my former thoughts...that was a while ago though. And now they're coming back, especially about the boy that I'm infatuated with...and i don't want to bring him into this, he's a Christian boy!! I don't wanna think of him like that...or think like that at all.

like I said, I know in the Bible it says several times lust and sexual immorality is sin...but i need help stopping the thoughts. I'm praying! if you have any advice, please offer it, if you don't please pray for me.
Lust is not wrong! And you cannot help feeling attracted towards a male, it is only natural! You can't deny your feelings for this "christian boy" just because of the bible, stuff religion, do what you feel like. Maybe I am being a little biast as I am not religious, but it really does seem a little silly that you are putting your life and feelings on hold just to follow by a Book!!!
You are your own person, so do as you feel. As I said before, it is just Human Nature!
Love Sugar xxx
P.s. How do you think you were born?!

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Hiya, I'm Sugar (kisses xxx) ;) I am 16, nearly 17 in August! I'm a music student, live in Doncaster, England. I love alot of things, and one of those is sharing advice :) So feel free to ask me anything! Love Sugar x
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