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I am a Christian, and always have been. I pray at LEAST every other day, I occassionally go to church, I repent, I try to limit how much I sin, and I believe that Jesus is God's son.

I used to be very certain that I would end up in Heaven. But recently, I came across a Bible verse that has been on my mind for a while. It's Matthew 7:13-14.

"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a fiew find it."

Now I'm basically VERY worried about not making it to Heaven. The Bible says that it's hard to get in, but it also says that believing in Jesus is the only thing you need in order to get into Heaven. So I don't know what to do. =[

I'm also kind of starting to wonder about other religions. I think "If Christianity isn't the true religion, then I'll go to Hell forever", so I worry even MORE.

Please help. I don't need reassurance. I need answers.

Dear Christian,

What you are experiencing is actually a good thing. You are starting to question and that is the only way your Faith will be stronger. Faith is earned (through hard work and discovery) not given (by words of another). Believing in Christ is not the answer...it is living as Christ did that is important to know. There is not ONE true religion...but there is ONE true belief that is right for you. Religion is man-made, Spirituality is God-Made...religion is just a tool to help us on our path. Only you can discover that...not what your parents have set for you, or your church, or your friends...it is about your journey of getting on the path that leads you to GOD. Your relationship between you and God is personal and anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is NOT telling you with your best spiritual interest in mind. It's okay to question things that were told to you and understand that they are not all lies...they are just what other people have discovered to be true for them. I tell my clients try to read the bible with the Spirit and not the head. That is the way the Bible was intented to be read. Yur mind can confuse you when trying to understand such Spiritual Text.

That Bible verse that you quoted is very powerful and very open for interpretation. My advice on that verse is to just think about the many who think they are entering the "gates" because they "think" they know the answers...when in fact they may be misguided. If your heart feels led to follow the Path of Christ, then honor that...his teachings and his ways will lead to God. If your heart does not feel that calling then it would be wise to contact someone you trust to help advice for what is best for you and that will listen without judgement. You may not have all the answers...that is okay...it is your quest for the answers is what is important. Blessings to you on your Spiritual Journey!

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ok well my friend max is an athiest. he doesnt belive in any kind of god. hes like a science nerd so that probably has something to do with it. well i really want him to belive in God but i dont know how i can talk to him about it. we arent close enough to talk about that stuff. what should i do?

Dear Friend,

Your concern I understand is because you care about your friend. You also have to understand that his beliefs have nothing to do with you or your friendship or your beliefs. To be a true friend is to honor him and let him discover his truth. You don't have to agree with them but you can still honor your friendship with him. If he seeks answers, he will ask you...but if he does not, then you should remain a friend and not be consumed by changing his way of thinking or making him see things the way you do. One thing I think many people do in regards to beliefs and religion, is that they put their own ego involvement in regards to another's belief system...when in fact we should be accepting and stay true on our own path. If you are meant to guide him...the opportunity will be offered to you by him...the situation should never be forced. Respect and Honor your friend by learning acceptance, just as he should for you.
"Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind." ~Albert Einstein
I tend to agree with Einstein although I substitute Spirituality in place of religion, but I think you get the point.

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I dont know if what i wanna ask is related to
spirituality at all but what i wanna ask is that
when i listen to music not just any music but some which creates a feeling of euphoria i can feel my body release heat rather until the euphoria exists i can create this heat(alot of heat) on the palms of my hands i can almost feel something inside me flowing from my spine and back to my arms and then into my palms.
I've read something about chakras and energy as related to buddhist deciplines but idont really understand them if someone knows about this do tell. I can do this also when i am angry.

Dear Spirituality,

This is a common occurance for people who are open to it. Music is a source that is very close to the Spirit. If there a music that is opening a part of your Spirit, you should definately look into it and research. Music is often used as a tool for spiritual awakening. You may be discovering your Spirit's calling. You may be learning about some of your gifts that might entail healing. You can contact a Spiritual Counselor and/or Spiritual Life Coach. I am one, but there are many others. You should study of the Chakras and Energy work. My adivce that I give to all my clients is that if you truly feel drawn to discover this part about yourself and feel that you are led to do something wonderful with it, further your Spiritual Journey. You will be honoring yourself. You can contact me via e-mail if you are needing some professional advice.

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Dear Sedona,

Lately, I have been feeling stuck in my life and not really feeling like I am going anywhere. In the past, I had been okay with everything...but recently I am feeling like a failure in my own life. What is the empty feeling that I am experiencing?



Thank You,

Feeling Stuck

Hello Feeling Stuck,

Well first of all, I would like to commend you for acknowledging the feeling that you are experiencing of feeling empty and stuck. With you doing that process is actually a big step. Usually if we are not completing our spiritual path or intentions...we can get that empty feeling. In fact, that empty feeling can exist with us for quite awhile, but maybe we don't acknowledge it until something in our life makes us take a good long look at it. Maybe it's a person who is in our life, our work or maybe a loss of a family member. There can be numerous reasons for what catapults us to the recognition. Either way honor this process of accepting and don't fear to ask Why? Never feel ashamed for having this moment…in fact savor it and really digest the experience. After you go through this process you will be able to look back on it and know that you have become much wiser for the experience. Have you had an unfulfilled dream? Have you set goals in your life? Do you frequently meditate and/or pray? Has there been a big event that has happened in your life that might change you on your path? List the activities in your life that you think might be causing you to feel empty...then courageously ask why? Then honestly answer it, if you can't immediately...pray and meditate on the question and come back to it later. During this time journalizing is great therapy. So many answers will come to you if you take the time to sit quietly and write your thoughts. Seeking therapy on all levels...possibly from a therapist or Life Coach, but I offer you to think outside the box too...Spiritual Counselors and even Reiki Treatments. These services are also designed to help one on their journey as whole. I wish you blessings through this powerful awareness and experience. Know that if you want to know the answers...the truth of your spirit will be your freedom!

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I am part psychic sometimes I kno what is going to happen but it is usualy only about little things not like huge world wide things.

first off I would like to kno how I can strangthen my skills.

2nd off. Sometimes when I am going to bed I have hundreds of thoughts going threw my mind. It is like different people are talking all at once. The thoughts arent things I would kno of or have ever thought about. Do you think that I am having thoughts from other people or spirits? I doubt it but im not sure.

pyschic blahhhh,

It sounds like you are becoming aware of your psychic abilities. We all possess some gifts or abilities, but some choose to tune it out. You can strengthen your skills, but my suggestion to you is to figure out what your intentions are for doing this. Journalizing, meditating and praying is a good start to getting in contact with the part of yourself. Quieting the mind is what your objective needs to be to further your abilities. If you are serious on furthering your knowledge, make time for studying more about what your questions are about. Knowledge will be given to those who seek it. If you have further questions, I would be more than happy to guide you to more information via e-mail. It is a process, but the journey may be what was intended for your spiritual path.

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I love and believe in God and have my whole life. I come from a religious family but recently it's been really hard to believe. In the past month, I've lost my Aunt and my best friend's Dad to cancer.


My Aunt was just about the best person I've ever met. Honestly, sometimes I can't stand my extended family but she was different. She was always sweet, energetic (when she wasn't in the hospital) and optimistic.


My dad is always working so I almost never get to see him except on Sundays. My best friend and her family live next door so I was always around them and her father. He was such a great man and acted like a great father figure to me considering I don't have any older brothers and my dad is always working or busy with clients.


It's not fair that they get sick and die when there are murderers and such running around everywhere. It's not fair that God does this to me, my family, and my friend's family. My Aunt and her dad were great people and it's not fair that God takes them from us like that. I want to still believe that it all happens for a reason and that God loves me, and he know what he's doing, but I can't. I don't know what to do.

God?,

There is a lot that could be said but I feel this might be the most helpful for you at this time.
It is natural when we lose something that is important to us to be angry with something and figure out reasons why. When going through the grieving process, take God out of the equation. You can reflect on your belief at another time. Your faith and spirituality should not be based upon someone else's life. It's okay to allow yourself to mourn what was important to you. Honor their lives by honoring yours and the process. Take in all that they offered to you while they were alive and pay it forward that is how their legacy will live on. When you try to comprehend with the mind why things happen on a universal level, we will wind up getting stuck in confusion. I do know this much...their lives here on Earth was only the beginning...they emerged from their cocoons.

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i'm wicca and i'm gonna have a baby and well i was wondering if it's wrong if i make my baby learn and follow through with the wicca relligon i really want her/him to belive in what i belive in and i think of it as like the christans and how they make them belive in the whole jesus christ bible stuff no offence to any people who belive in that relligon so is it wrong? plez help

Wicca,

Many Blessings for you and your baby. You can't make any sentient being chose a way to believe. As parent, your role is to be a mentor so it is important to show your child what you know to be true for you. Always keep an open mind to other forms of beliefs and ideas...it may help further your enlightenment as well as your child's. When she spiritually matures remember to not take it personal if she chooses not to embrace your truth. A parent should always encourage a child to grow spiritually. Your role is to educate and teach tolerance on all levels. Guided her on what you know is important...don't hide it...you might be surprised...one day she may enlighten you on what she learns.

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I'm so messed up I'm agnostic thinking about turning back into a christian or turn into an athiest.. I'm so scared if I turned into an athiest I'll go to hell If there really is a god... If I turn into a christian I'll be believein in something that may not be real? I cried about this.. Should I just turn into an athiest and if there really is a god go to hell for it.. Or should I turn into a christian and believe and god and maybe go to heaven if god is real?

Hello I cried,

I think first and foremost it is important that you shouldn't feel scared or alone while you are going through this feeling. This is an opportunity for you to grow on a spiritual level. Keep in mind when you look to religion to answer your soul questions, you will always end up short handed. The truth lies within you. You don't have to follow a structured form of belief to guide you to your own inner enlightenment. If you let fear drive your decision on faith...your faith will not be pure in heart. Research all options of faith, not just Christianity and see what feels the most comfortable for you and truth for you. Try not to be too consumed with trying to label yourself and most of all, be patient with yourself. You aren't meant to have all the answers at once. If you ask for truth with an open heart (no matter what the answer is...it will come to you when you are ready to receive it)

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