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I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help?

ok...well i have the same problem but the opposite! i am skinny and i hate being it! yanno i dont think any one is truley satisfied with themselfs! in life sociaty expect all girls to be skinny, thin, big hips , big boobs, big but kinda perfect ppl! but to to you the truth there is no one out there who went through there teenage years like that..and you may think that they did and didnt have a self image problem...thats wrong b-c there is no such thing as a perfect girl! ir you want to become this "perfect person" to me in my opinion it is hurting Gods feelings in a way...b-c he made us and to tell ourselves we are ugly or fat is wrong...you are the way you are for a reason and there is nothing that matter with yoU! if you MUST loose weight try getting on a healthy diet..like salads and cut down on snacks...BUT NEVER STOP eating..that slows down you matablism and makes you gain MORE weight when you do start eating !! dont do it b-c you want to look like that "perfect person" do it b-c you want to be healthier! ...hope i helped ya!

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