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13/f OK my dad can be so moody somtimes. Like a moment he'll be happy and fun and stuff and the next if I do somthing wrong he'll be all mad. When it comes to boys its really bad. I live right next to these boys who im friends with and somtimes he'll be like ok go ahead outside with them and then another time he'll be like tell them no I dont like you out there with no boys and I hate because I don't get him. And I can't talk with him because I know I can't talk to him about everything and I dont like writing him letters. How can I get him to trust me with boys because it's not like I do anything with them. So please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well i have a problem similar to this and I know how you feel. Just have the boys over to your house and hang out outside for a couple of days so your dad can warm up to them and see how that goes. My dad is the same way but he knows I'm good friends with all these boys so he can't really do anything about it now. Even though he hates their guts he just won't let me go to his house. you figure it out just try this first then if that doesn't work back and we will try again.

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