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My name is Jack and I'm 22. Sorry if this is long but I really need the help. I recently found out that I have a 15 year old half sister named sarah. I've been searching for her for a long time and I finally found her. Well when I first saw her I noticed that she had scars on her arms that I think were from cutting herself. The more I talked to her the more I noticed something was wrong. At first she wasn't saying much I figured that was normal I mean she had never met me before and she had just found out that I was her half brother. I've been seeing her everyday for about 2 weeks now and she still seems really nervous like she's almost afriad to get to know me. I've also been trying to meet my father but evertime I go to see him she comes to the door and says he's not home even though his car is there. I asked to meet her mom and she said that she wasn't home either. This goes everynight. Well this afternoon I stopped by without calling first so sarah didn't know I was coming I wanted to surprise her. I heard yelling so I tried to see what was going on but the door was locked. I stood there for 5 minutes before my sarah came to the door. She looked like she was limping and seemed to be in pain. She said that she was going to a friends house so she couldn't go with me today. I asked about her parents again and again they weren't home. Well after she left I went in the house I saw that my father was drunk and her mother was too. I think they could be abusing but I just don't understand why she would hide it. I'm really worried about her. She's a really nice kid and I don't know what to do. I'm beginning to form a relationship with my sister and I don't want to ruin that. Getting to know my father isn't that important to me right now because I've found something better. What should I do to make sure that suspicions are correct? and don't say talk to her because she won't tell me. Also if she is being abused would it be a good idea to turn her parents in even if she doesn't want me to? I'm thinking about asking her to come live with me but I don't know much about 15 year old girls. Would having her move in with me be a good idear or are there other options that will be better for her?
Thank you in advance
Jack (link)
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jack you have to tell someone call 9-1-1 something get her to open up to you and open up to you!
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Me & my cousin used to be like sisters when we were younger. Ever since she was verbally abused by her ex-boyfriend, though, she hasn't spoken to me much. I've tried to talk to her, but she never really opens up to me. I feel really bad because she just got dumped by her "friends" & boyfriend.. But I don't know what to do. I have a feeling that we're never gonna be close again & it hurts :( Is there anything I can do? (link)
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just tell her you will always be there for her and you want to be close again open up to her first tell her your prombles then let her open up on her own it might take longer but see will well let me know what happens keep in touch hope i helped please rate high
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ok .. my dad has changed an hes really ill.. an hes sp mean now an i hate to be around him im only 14 .. an like i really dont want to go with him when its time .. an plus hes a lawyer an i cant talk to him about anything hes not a dad to me anymore ... an my parents our divorced an i dont know what to do im just so upset he hits me an i dont know ... i just dont want to go with him cant i make a choice if i can how ?? please help me??? (link)
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omg thats so sad tell your mom if he starts to hurt you a lot and bad and your moms not lisening to you cal 1-800-need to talk and they can give you better advice its free and 24\7 hope i helped please rate high and write back whats going on to tuttcutie and tell me what he does to you and your name please i CAN help i'm 14 too so i know about everything going on the dram at school and at home
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