about

Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

My mom and Dad hate each other. My Dad is an ass and my mom always complain that I am just like him just because I agree with what he says. And it isn't because of any reason I just think that his ideas are smarter then hers. Like for example: i was doing my homework and i didn't know this answer so she said to just ask the teacher and he'll give me all the answers but my dad said I should look at the answers at the back of the book cuz then I'd try and see how i got the answers and then I'd get it. And then she told the whole family (aunts, everyone) that I like Dad more then her and now everyone hates me because I like my dad more then her and it's not even true! And she asked me to fix the remote but I said I didn't know how and I meant it and she yelled back, YOUR JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER! God! someone help me feel better because she's a bitch but I always cry and get depressed.


Isn't your mother the ass? Looks like it.



Tell your Mom how you feel of course! Write it in a letter, e-mail it to her, or just talk nto her face-to-face. Tell her what you told us. "Mom, you're starting to be really irritating to me. Aren't you supposed to be the mature one? Because you're not doing a very good job of being a mother to me. I love you as a Mom, and I love Dad too, equally. It's just that I agree with him because he has better ideas than you. I think I know about who I like better than you do. Also, if you seriously think I like Dad better, this is the wrong way to handle it. By acting like this, it's getting me to think if Dad is a better person. Only because you're acting like a drama queen about it. If you want me to like you two the same, which I do already but, treat me better. You make me cry and don't comfort me about it. You make me depressed about something untrue. I'd like to know what kind of Mom treats her kid this way." Do something like that. Take it and make it nastier (not too nasty or you'll be digging your own grave!) or sweeter (not too sweet or she won't get how much of a bitch she;s being to you!)

And be calm about it. If you're going to talk face-to-face, cross your arms to show her you won't back down and look her straight in the eye, but don't give an attitude or it'll give her the message of, "I'm asking fcor trouble." You have to tell her as her daughter about what a bad Mom she;s being.

xoxo
-Jennifer Choi ♥

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My sister has been trying so hard to impress everyone lately. She isn't even herself anymore, and she hasn't been for almost 2 years (she's 14). She spends days on myspace, facebook, and aim. She's become a typical fake teenaged girl who says "like" and "hilarious" every other word.

How do I deal with her?


My sister is JUST like that! She begs her parents to buy her clothes at Abercrombie when my parents don't even have the money. I asked her why she wants to shop there and she goes, "Because everyone else is." Some of Abercrombie's clothes have very shallow words on them and it used to be a racist store (but it's not any more because business started to suck.) It's horrible, isn't it? I want her past self back as well, but it's her personality and mind that you really can't do anything about it, other than convince her that being a fake person is just... stupid and wrong. If that doesn't work, you just have to watch her turn into one of those plastic people that we see so much of on this world.

I couldn't change my sister back to her old self either... I just ignore her and not talk to her. There isn't really anything to do, but that. I have to deal with the same thing. The best thing you can do is not to turn into a wannabe faker yourself!


Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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my little sister Dana is turning 13 early next month and we don't know how to celebrate it but we want it to be special. she'd do a sleepover but our mom won't allow it. she's thinking of a party but she dosen't know what theme to use. what do you guys suggest? please help. thanks in advanced.

Go to a movie theater and watch a movie of her choice. Buy buttered popcorn or chocolate for her as you watch the movie.
Buy her gifts, of course! Maybe a nice pair of Uggs or a sweater for the winter. Maybe a CD from her favorite singer. Spoil her rotten! =) Get her a simple but cute and sweet card if you really don't have money.
Just do something simple at home... like play music (if you bought her a CD, play that!!)) and just go wild! Have chips and soda!
Play fun games... like Twister or maybe Truth or Dare. I played those kind of games when I was thirteen, I remember. Start a pillow fight! It doesn't have to be at a sleepover!
Make desserts. Bake cupcakes or make sundaes or something else. Get M&Ms, kisses, sprinkles, frosting, strawberries, whipped cream or something and have a contest where the cutest cupcake or sundae wins something small and cute!

Have fun
-Jenny C

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I love my sister... sooooooo much..
But there is a teensy weensy problem:
She is EXTREMELY flirtatious. I have a loyal boyfriend, thank God, but my best friend, Layne, and her boyfriend, Connor, came over... and...things got a little heated up between my Connor and my sister. Layne and I were watching a movie, but Connor went into the kitchen to make popcorn or something and my sister was there so...
And when Layne and Connor were leaving my house, myy sister came and kissed him good-bye! On the lips! Right in front of Layne!
Is Connor loyal? Or did my sister do this against Connor's will?? Layne is so upset and Connor is mad at ME for some reason. They're both my friends and I don't know what to do.
I replaced my sister's skin cream with mayo... but what other solution is there??

If Connor is angry at you, he's most likely a loyal boyfriend. Think: why would he be angry? Because Layne now thinks he's a cheater, right? Why would he care about what Layne thinks when he could have your sister? He wouldn't be mad if he doesn't care about Layne. Tell her that, and give her a hug for me, will you? =)
And, gosh, your sister? She is one slutty bitch!! I'm sorry to curse out your beloved sister but seriously...! Tell your sister, calmly, in the complete opposite way of how I reacted against her, "Hey, remember when my friends were coming over? Connor and Layne? Why did you kiss Layne's boyfriend?!"
If she goes, "Cause he's hot, duh!" or something stupid like that, reply, "Well he's my BEST friend's boyfriend! And believe me, he did not like that kiss, because now he's mad at me!"
Tell her in detail how she ruined your life. Try to make her feel guilty. And replacing her skin cream with mayo was totally right.

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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i was baking a cake for my christmas party and my neice asked me if she could dip her finger in it and i said no. She runs downstairs and tells my sister a whole different story, while crying, and my sister comes marching upstairs saying
"Did you hurt her feelings?"
i said "No, she just asked me..."
she said "Why do you always have to be so mean jane".
then my neice comes marching up the stairs with tears running down her face and crying. They wrap their arms around eachother, and go downstairs. I tries to tell her what happened, but my neice insisted on her story. I need help. And this isnt the first time she's done it.



BTW The advice for "Stage fright" went well, i rocked it!

-Jane

Oh... my... gosh... SO like my younger sister with my Mom!
Well, this is how I solved it. I wrote a letter.
You should write a letter similar to this:
Mom,
Okay, I know you love that darling little neice of ours, but she may not be so darling as you thought. I have no idea what she says to manipulate your mind into thinking she's a sweetie, but here's what really happened:
The angel asked me if she could dip her finger in the cake. I, supposedly the devil, said, "No."
Devious of me, isn't it? No.
I don't know what that angel of yours that you always defend says to you, but I think it's completely unfair or you to take her side without listening to what I have to say. It's unfair, okay?
Next time, I'll let the angel dip all five of her fingers into the cake frosting, how about that? The cake will be messy, but that apparently doesn't matter, does it?
I just wish you'll listen to me more than her.

From, Jane..

Tape the letter onto her bedroom door or hand it to her personally or something. Tell her, "Please read it, okay?" Then maybe it'll work out..

Tell me everything about it!!
-Jenny C

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hey my brother is 18 and started smoking
he claims it's only every once and awhile
but i don't think he's telling the truth
he doesn't want me to tell my parents but.. idk.help please.

I have an uncle that used to smoke. My sisters and I love him so much, but his breath would smell nasty all the time... and then there's the possiblity of cancer, right?
Did you try to convince him to stop? If you did, but he refused to, he's probably already hooked on it which is life-threatening. If you really want to know how many times he smokes everyday, hide an attachable smoke detector somewhere.
When your brother's out somewhere, search his room for hidden cigarettes. If you find a pack of cigarettes, throw them out and replace them with a note, pleading for him to stop. He'll probably get annoyed, but it worked for my uncle. You have to get it through his head that it's bad for him. Don't tell your parents just yet. Give him a chance to be able to stop and then if he keeps continuing, then you have to tell someone trustful.
There might be a reason he's smoking. Most likely out of depression. Ask his closest friends about his social life or something. Try to be supportive if you find a problem that triggered the start of your brother smoking.

Hope I've helped
-Jenny

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