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Q: 15/f
my parents are so strict,
i dont know what to do to change it.
i got 2 a's on my report card and the rest b's and tehre mad. they dont want me to have a bf cause im "too young", even though everyone else has one. and the other day i couldnt sleepover at my friends cause my mom didnt know her, except fro teh fact she saw her late at night with guys.
they suspect i go out and drink, or they think i hang around wtih people that do(but they do)but they know im responsible, like they dont trust me at all! like they dont want me to drink at all, even thought i KNOW they did when they were my age. there so strict and its not like they just get over it, like if i had a boyfriend theyd go tell all my aunts uncles and there friends, so its pretty intimidating too. i dont know what to do cuase its not fair, i wanna go out and stuff but there so strict about everything like drinking, boys, and grades. i know theyre just watching out but still im 15 and i wanna have fun! and 2 a's and the rest b's isnt bad!

its driving me nuts and there pissing me off!
PLEASE HELPPPPPPP!!!

hey girl, i know what thats like! my parents were the same way, i know its hard but you just have to talk to them one day maybe at dinner or something and tell them that you understand why they are strict but you want to gain there trust, and to do that you need a little more freedom. that worked with my parents, they'll probably think your really mature for talking it out with them. Trust me if you complain and yell at them it will make them want to be more strict, i tried that at first and got no where haha, tell them you try your best at school and you'll keep trying

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