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My name is Sasha Davis and I hope to someday be a phycologist. I am here because I want to learn about how I can best help other people. Come to me with your problems and I promise I will give you the best advice possible. Thank you :)
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I am really hating my mom again. Everytime I do something in front of her she responds to me when she tells me something. Gosh I don't know what she wants from me because I talked to hotlines about this and all they told me was find a job move out talk to her. I cried it's hard i thought the hotline will really help me but it didn't. she tries to imitate the sound I have when I talk in my head when she tells me something. I am not a daughter in her eyes anymore she is brainwashed completely. I was around her reading this thing label then she got an idea from that. Like she observed and knew the thoughts on my brain. I don't think people should be doing that. SHe is so cruel to me and everybody else in that family. I dismembered my self from the family tree. I hate them they are so rude. No normal people will like them. Does anyone know how to deal with it or can give advice aside from getting counseling.
You sound like someone who is so overinformed in the subject of self help that you forget the basics. Talking about your problems will not fix them. Moving out will not help your relationship with your mother. You can never seperate yourself from your family because emotionally, you still care about them. I suggest you decide not to talk about your problems with your mother. If she starts to insult you, just walk away. Instead, start doing things together. Go on walks in the woods, see movies or go skating. If you start focusing on the positives instead of the negatives, your relationship will begin to heal. Don't give up. Let me know how things turn out :)
she said she was leaving and i wat to go do i beg her or what and sha calld my granny and she said no to .
If you want to go, talk to them about it. They could still cahnge their minds. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know what they say :)