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Today my friend is having some people over..3 girls including her and 1 guy. We are all 15/16. Anyway, we were going to be drinking so we were all spending the night. Thing is, my parents know I like the guy and don't want him to spend the night. (my dad figured once I said he was "hanging out" for a while...he said "well, I just don't want him sleeping there") I'm not planning on staying sober late enough that i could call and say he doesn't have a ride. I really don't wanna get caught drinking either... it's pretty much the first time I do anything bad. all the other parents are ok with it...how do I break it to my dad gently and still be able to go? it's in 3 hours... I NEED YOU GUYS URGENTLY! please & thanks. (link)
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Hey. Just tell him that guys cant stay the night. And that the boy isnt staying the night hes just coming over for a while to hang out. I hope this helps. Good luck!
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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
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well, i just learned about this stuff in school. theres a cycle for domestic violence. first its walking on eggshells where he is not letting u do certain things or talk to certain people or whatever and then theyres the explosion where he hits you then theres the honeymoon where he says hes sorry and never happen again. you need to get out before its too late. what hes doing isnt right. you would much rather be without him, right? u deserve so much better and so do your children. go to the police. go to a friend. GET OUT!
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im moving to a new house and i couldnt be more happier about it. the only thing that i thought was bothering me was the fact that its out in the middle of no where! but last night i broke down talking to a friend and realized more was bugging me. I live with my grandparents because my mom has a boyfriend that i was never really fond of. he use to hurt her a lot and she picked him over me. so i moved out.she still comes over every day to my grandparents house to visite me but now that we are moving i dont see her driving every day an extra 10 minutes to see me. she lives not even 2 minutes from me now and now im moving farther! i hate the fact that im moving away from my parents because they are my parents but yet i can never live with them and im still hurt from what happen. i dont know what to think or do? (link)
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u need to decide whats better for you. maybe being away from your mom is better for you and will help u have a better life. you should think about what u want and what will help u. go for it, take a risk.good luck.
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