I've been threw alot in my 19 years any subject you can think of death, love, family, friends all the dramatic things.
Gender: Female
Location: Ct.
Age: 19
Member Since: January 19, 2005
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My family has always had issues. I've tried to work at fixing them even though my family tells me constantly that its me, not them. We fight over how much work each other does around the house, we fight over who gets to watch what on TV, we fight about almost anything we can think of. I think that everyone in my family has little problems in their lives that they need to work on, but they all seem to think that it's my fault, when I believe all I'm trying to do is help get this family in line because no one else can. Could it all be my fault, or no? (link)
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unlike the other advice you've gotten i'm gonna say don't ignore them that only makes you look worse. make sure you do your part in the house, when arguments about what to watch break out don't pick a side at all instead just sit there as if you don't care either way. don't give them a reason to involve you in these arguments. try and be the voice of reason if it's possible. and if someone wants to talk to you, talk to them (like your parents) make yourself available and make it so they know what your thinking and where you stand in the house. be patient and don't let your attitude get in the way of letting you say what you need to. good luck
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Over the weekend I did a really stupid thing. Ive been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now and nothing has every happened romantically between us. It crossed my mind a few times but nothin ever came of it. Anyways over the weekend we slept together. he has a girlfriend and i feel really bad. i never really had feelings for him but now i do and he told his girlfriend about it and he wants to try to stay with her. We havent really talked about why it happened and whether we have feelings for each other or not. I want to talk to him about it but i want to bring it up without looking like im clingy and all "where is this going" kind of annoying.
I really dont know what to do. Any advice would help. Thanks (link)
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the only reason you have feelings for him now is because you slept with him. he has a girl, and he wants to stay with her you should try and talk to him but if you two were drinking then its a shame that happened and try not to let mess up your friendship
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