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ok i met this guy joey @ the mall in januray..i really liked him n we hav been seeing eachother for a while...now on sept 25 he officially asked me out...so we go out now....well my mom doesnt know bout him...and he always wants me to go places with him and stuff...and usuaully im able to bc my friend lives around hte block from him so i tell my mom to take me over there to her house...and we go to his...im really close with my mom but ive never told her about ne of my bf's...ive never even been close to my bf's in the past..im really close with joey n i want him to b able to come places with me too...but im scared to tell my mom we go out...his parents know me n stuff but im jsut embarased to talk bout this stuff with my mom bc she will ask soo much ??'s n im afraid she wont let me see him bc shell think we cant be alone or watever or shell wanna meet his parents...in other words shelll act lyke wer getting married or something....i just want her to know so i can b like hey mom can joey come with us or watever!!....she sed i could hav a bf and stuff but ive never told her i had one....im so sick of lying to her bc shes starting to get suspicious...i wanna tell her this wekeend....how shuld i bring it up n tell her? wat do i say?? also, joey n my friend are going to a skatepark saturday and joeys neighbor is taking them and they wanna swing by my house n pick me up so i can go...im scared my mom wont let me if she knows wer going with him but i dont want to lie again....wat do i say?? plz help...

i have been in your shoes before. i too am VERY close to my mom. she doesn't know about my past boyfriends. until one day, i was in the car with just my mom, we had this really great conversation, and we got along really well and she was telling me EVERYTHING...since she was telling me everything, i decided to tell her everything too. starting with my current boyfriend, whom is now my ex, but anyways, that night, i told my mom to come into my room cuz i wanted to tell her something, and then out of no where, she was like "you doing drugs?!" and i was like.."NO!" ok well yea...dat was how it all started, and so i was like "mom, i have a boyfriend right now" and she said, "[sigh] thank goodness it isn't something bad like i thought it would be, well now that u have a boyfriend, all i can say is u better be carful, and i don't want ur studies in skool to be bad now that u have a guy in ur life." and then all of a sudden, my mom gave me SEX ED...gosh...dat was the worst part...but it was all worth it, being truthful to my mom and letting her know that i don't keep things from her

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