Have managed to live a extremely full life in my short forty two years on this earth.
Drove 18 wheel truck cross country for six years... was born on a carnival route.
And now am a stay at home mom who mentors at a nearby elementary school.
Look up not down.... Looking down only let's you see the top of your dirty shoes.
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Umm yea my dad past away on september 25 if 2003 and lately people have been saying how much they hate their dads because they wont give them everything they want and i can't help but flip out on them and i feel bad for it but they dont understand...my dad was never there for me and we only talked like 3 times my whole life and i am 16 years old and, i was in foster care and 2 weeks before my dad passed away he told the judge he would take me and then he got in an accident and died what do i do
*CONFUSED* (link)
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Dear Confused,
First off my condolences to you on the loss of your father.
If I were in your shoes I think I might try to gather all the pictures of him I possibly could.
And write down all the things that have been said , stories etc. about him that you'd like to remember.
Also if possible I would try and establish a relationship with his parents ( your grandparents ) if you don't already have one.
Also his brother's and sister's your Aunt's & Uncle's.
My heart aches for you when everything was so close to becoming a reality for you.
My father was forced out of my life when I was three years old. I'd looked for him for years when I found him it was too late he'd passed away.
So my heart cracks for the pain you must feel.
But these are the only things I can think of that in hindsight I'd have done myself differently.
Sincerely,
evlevo85
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