hi every1! my name is katie, im 17 years old,i feel that any1 who can diss someone and say that there giving advice, are so totally retarded and messed up! but there are some WEIRD peeple out there.even though im only 17, i have been through alot, i have been raped, molested, beaten, my parents are divorced and i have ran away from home so theres not much that i havent been through. so u can imagine how much advice i have 4 all of u troubled peeple.im listening, u just talk! thanx!
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My dad is an alcoholic and hits my mom all the time. Can I do anything about it even though he doesnt hit me? He calls me bad names a lot though. Oh and Im 16. (link)
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i had this problem 4 years straight. what you gotta do is talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. tell her that your unhappy and you want this to stop. help her realize that whats going on is NOT healthy. this going on in your life can cause you serious mental damage, like you will always be afraid of your dad or any guy and it might also perhaps affect your marriage if you ever do get married. talk to your dad and tell him your point of veiw in the situation. tell him that you love him but you dont want him to hurt you and your mom anymore. Offer fior him to get some help. and if he doesnt stop then talk to your mom about leaving him. well i hope everything ends up alright. hey if you need more help or advice, contact me at my email, stupidcupid12@verizon.net or my mysppace URL www.myspace.com/bonkersbritishbabe12 it seems like you need a freind that can help you right now. and im always here. =)
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im a twin and i feel as if my dad treats my sister differently than me .. she snuck out of the house and got caught and she didnt even get grounded while me on the other hand didnt tell my dad all the details about my friends sweet sixteen and i was grounded from my boyfriend for a week .. does anyone know what i can do? (link)
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well i myself am not a twin, but i have many freinds who are, but i d have a sister that is similar in age to me and the same thing happens with us, ill do something and get punished 4 it, then my sister will do the exact same things like a day later and she might even do somthing worse then what i did and she wont get punished what so ever. all you can do is sit down and talk to your dad and your sister about it and dont make it seem all about you like by using the words, me, I, myself, ect., if you do than include you, your, us, or we. for example, dont say to your dad, " I hate the way you treat me", try using, "can you please treat me and my sister the same?" and tell him how you feel, like how he treats you both differently in how he punishes you, and talks to you mabye, or even mention that you "feel" like hes playing favorites, and also discuss how you could try to work it out.
well i hope i helped a little.
=) i hope everythings works out.
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My mom and dad are having some problems and I've been pretty upset about it. My mom basicaly told my dad that she doesn't like him much anymore just because of their arguments in the past. My mom, dad and I always used to go out on Satudays and do things like go out to eat, go to movies and things like that. Now, my dad and I are the only one's that do that while my mom is out with her new friend drinking at bars and things. Most of the time she even just spends the night at here friends house. I've tried talking to her but its just to akward. What in the heck should I do? Is she mabe having an affair? I don't know what to do or think. Any good advice would do me some good right now. Thanks everybody! (link)
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hey, first off, let me say that im very sorry that you're stuck in this crapy thread. I know what its like to have your parent(s) ignore you and go off and do things wrong and other stupid things. My parents are divorced and when im at my dads house, my dad pretty much either ignores me or yells at me for styupid things. and when im at my mom's, she drinks and smokes every minute. my sister yells at me every night, and since my mom's drunk all the time, she hardley even spends time with me. and on weekends she goes out drinking with her freinds, doing what? i have no freaking idea. she is also very very abusive when shes drunk so that's another problem i have to feal with. but with your mom, when she IS home, go over to her and try to spend as MUCH time with her as possible, show her that you love her and care about her and make her feel like she is needed and wanted in your life. just show her that you need to desperatly spend time with her. if she calls herself you're mother, than she will listen to you. you're her daughter, she MUST love you. and if she dosent listen to you, then theres nothing much you can do for her, and be glad that you at least have a good dad that looks out for you and is always there for you. even talk to you're dad about your mom and tell him you're conserned about her. well i hope my6 advice works, and if you decide to take it then please write me back and let me know how it all turned out. k? thank you. good luck =)
xoxoxoxox
katie
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Well i used to dance when i was 4-7 but then i quit because of the teacher who used to pick on me. I REALLY wanna' dance, i might become a perfessional dancer if i will make it.. But i think its too late to start dancing? What is the best group to start if i start now and want to be a hip-hop dancer? Do i start hip-hop straight away or ballet or what? I'm so cunfussed plus mum thinks its a 5 minute thing for me.. she is like "No your go for 5 minutes and want to quit!" just because i done that will girl scouts, art club and other clubs but i know i want this.. I want it bad but she dont believe me! How can i make her believe me that i want it!!
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First of all, you dont just make someone beleive something that you want them to, you have to prove it to them, shown them that you can dance, make them want you to join.prove her wrong, and dance at home every single moment you can, and say that you wont stop dancing untill she lets you join a team.like for example, i wanted a horse badly when i ws 12, and my dad and mom wouldnt let me get one because it was to expensive and they thought it was gonna be one of those 2 hour things and then ill want to quit.but i really wanted this horse, so i kept on buying horse books, toys, magazines and every thing else that i could find that was horse related, and saved up enough money (i made the merchandise noticable to my parents to show how determined i was to get a horse, but I kept the money saving a secret)to be able to buy a horse and the eed and tack and every thing else needed t take care of a horse, and my parents finnally gave into the horse thing and bought me my own horse.by the way, i still have that same horse and i continue to take care and expand my love of horses.it worked for me, so it could work for you as well.thanks for listening.
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