Hello, my name is Christina, but my close friends and family call me Stina. I grew up with both my mom and dad as drug addicts. Thankfully, my dad quit, but my mom is still a drug addict. She used to be an alcholic, too, but she quit. I have one sister, and four brothers. I am the youngest. I dont really have a family, the only family I have, is my sister's family, and my boyfriend. We're planning on getting married one day. I am obcessed with dragons and the music groups Slipknot and Stone Sour. They're the only heroes I have besides God, my boyfriend and my sis and her family. I love to draw, sing, be with friends and family, to cuddle and to give big hugs, writing stories, poems and songs. I have a deep love for people and animals (especially dogs). Generally, I don't like people, because everytime I try to be nice, they give me dirty looks, but this is just some people. There are more better people out there. I love to help people, I find it very fun. I'm loyal, unique, loving and caring. Sometimes, people mistake me as being mean, and evil, or depressed. I'm the complete opposite. Although, sometimes I am rude and mean without meaning to be. I am very sarcastic, and I always stick up for the underdog. I always stand up for what I believe in, I speak my mind, without being rude about it. I'm nice until you f*** with me. That's basically it. Oh yeah, if any of you have a livejournal, look me up.
Dragonessfire01 :) laterz
E-mail: Dragonessfire01@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Bakersfield, CA
Occupation: None, but I want to be a psychologist or an animator.
Age: 18
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i am 7 months pregnant. i honestly do not like my boyfriends mother that much . she is 37 years old and i am 20. she is a very very pushy woman and always needs things to go her way and has no problem whatsoever putting her 2 cents in any given situation, even what to name our son. to make things short, i want my mom to be in the hospital room when i give birth, however, do not want my boyfriends mom in there because she makes me uncomfortable and i do not care for her much. i understand and respect the fact that my boyfriend loves and adores his mother and would never do anything to try and change that, however, we have not always seen eye to eye(his mother and i) ..my question is : i need my mom to be in the room when i give birth, but is it wrong of me to request that my boyfriends mother stay out? ..it would really hurt my boyfriend, since he wants his mother there, however, would really bother and hurt me if she were in there because i feel she would ruin my experience of bringing my baby into the world. Also, my mother feels that since i am her daughter, she should be in the room and she does not like my boyfriends mother as well. i feel as if she will be offended and hurt (my mom) if i invite my boyfriends mother in the room as well because she feels like she is fighting for the fact that i am her daughter and she is my mom, not his mom. (link)
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ok, im a aunt of three and my sister and i are very close, so i know what im talking about even though im 18 and childless. you dont need to feel bad about not wanting his mom there. youre doing the work of pushing this baby out, so you shouldnt have to feel bad. as long as your comfortable. so dont worry about it.
good luck
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I need good answers for the following questions:
Why do people divorce?
How can you prevent divorce?
What are signs of divorce?
When should you get a divorce, like in what situations?
Lastly, what are some statistics on divorce in 2007.
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In the United States, 49% of marriages end in divorce. Although, 82% of all married couples will reach thier fith wedding anniversary, only 52% will celebrate 15 years of marriage. The medium duration of first marriages that end in divorce is slightly less than eight years. Most people will wait until about three years after a divorce to re-marry. Most divorce proceedings will take aproximately one year to complete.
(btw: i got this from another site)
It takes two to work on marriage. And for some, it gets boring just being with one person. I think when the man/woman is getting abused, or just is treated badly, or are losing feelings and intrest in one another, etc. Thats when I believe a divorce should be neccessary.
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well ive been homskooled all my life, until last year we moved to my dad's home town and they finally agreed to let me go away to public skool! i was sooo happy when they let me go to skool cuz for about a year or so i had thought about klling myself cauz i never did anything i was always at church or at hom ewith my family who ignores me! well i did my very best last year and i got all A's! but this year i over heard my parents talking and they sadi that if i made just one bad grade on my report card that they would pull me out cauz my parents told me if i didnt that they would pull me out of skool and id be back to homskooling. the bad thing is im making a c in english and the report cards are coming out thsi friday! i really dont want to be pulled out cauz then i will go back into my depression state, only this time i would cut myself cauz then they'd have to send me back to skool or i'd keep cutting myself, and if they dont do that they'll have to send me to the place for crazy ppl! i know thats a rally bad place cauz ive had friends go there an d come back adn they sadi it was awfull, but i dont care just as long as i dont come back to this god forsaken house everyday doing nothing but homeskooling and going to church!
how do i get me parents to understand that im not their perfect genius who will always make A'S? (link)
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Tell them. Tell them that youre depressed sitting at home. Tell them that youre human and that you arent perfect and all you can do is try. Please dont kill yourself or try. I understand youre depressed, but trust me, I've been where you are now. Try to get them to understand, that the only one whose perfect is God. As for us, we're only human, and thats all we ever will be as long as we are here on earth.
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