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Hi Everyone My name is Josh but you can call me Charm. I am 22 years old currenting living in Missouri but from Los Angeles Ca I would love to move back someday when the time is right.
As for me I am on here to give advice on any and every subject you could think of. I have always been told that I give great advice or that I can help people see the problem from the other person's point of view. So If you would like me to answer any questions feel free to email me.

E-mail: charmedempath@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Los Angeles CA
Occupation: Casino Marketing Reo
Age: 22
Yahoo: charmedempath
MSN: robie_2001@hotmail.com
Member Since: February 2, 2006
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I don't know whats wrong with me, i get mad so quickly but only when im with family or the people im more comfortable with, it seems like my mom and dad are never happy with anything that i accomplish, i just want my dad to pay more attention to me, but he's always siding with his girlfriend on everything and it makes me feel like shes more important, i get mad sometimes and slam my hands down on somethin and have even broke a few things (not of great value) i just wanna know what i can do besides count to 10 cause i just get even more mad by the end of that. (link)
I went through a similar situation with my dad and I always found that talking to him with out his girlfriend in the room helped.
As well as giving him specific examples...Dad I feel like you choose sides with your girlfriend when your talking about this issue... Whatever that issue maybe

Or the other solution which is thinking out of the box but became friends with his girlfriend. Then when he starts to choose sides she'll stand up for you. That way he can't choose sides.

And as far as you mom and dad never being happy with what you accomplish don't worry about that they never will. You could do everything perfect exactly how they wanted you to be and there would still be something wrong with it, because it's not about you. It is something they are not dealing with in their own lives that is causing them to be unhappy with theirs

Hope this helps




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