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sorry this is long, and full of profanities, but i seriously cant take it anymore.
hey i dont know who is going to be up at 10 oclock on a Sunday, but of course i am. You see, i really hate my dad. Time after time he makes me so pissed off and annoyed at him, and i just cannot stand it. Like this morning, he wakes me up at 8 30 to go to church, and then he fucking leaves without me because i "wasnt ready!" Now i have to go by myself and after church i was supposed to have plans with my friend i havent seen in 2 months and i cant even do that! This morning i was writing an away message and he tells my little sister to turn off the computer because i was on for too long and i was "ignoring him" so she turns it off! like wtf? so i slam in the keyboard drawer because i was so pissed off, and it fucking broke! now im in trouble for breaking the keyboard, and not going to mass. Finally, my dad is angry at me because i bought too many songs on iTunes. The bill was 20 dollars.
Who cares?! 20 bucks is not a lot for buying music that me and my brother listen too, and this doesnt even happen every month! Usually its like 5 bucks!
You may think im being like stuck up or bratty over this, but this is how it is for me day after day. I hate my dad and im always mad at him and i wish he would leave my mom so i wouldnt have to deal with him anymore. I go to a very hard high school, and i manage to get A's and B's so i think he should be damn proud of that. can anyone help me? how can i work things out with my dad?
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hey, i totally understand what your saying- it seems like no matter what our parents can find a way to ruin everything. But, as much as you probly dont want to hear this, maybe you just have to look at this from your dads point of view. Maybe hes sick of being late to church and just wants to get there on time becuase thats the one time where you can be together as a family and be calm and focused on something othere than the rush of daily life.
Also, as far as the computer thing goes, no it wasnt fair for him to turn of the computer that way, but maybe he just wants you to pay attention to him like maybe hes feeling that talking to your friends is more important than talkting to him. And the itunes bill, i understand u didnt mean it but maybe he doesnt want to waste money becuase theres more important things to pay for. Parents try not to get there kids involved in thier financial life, becuase they dont want them to hav to worry but idk if youve noticed, but the basic needs today are really expensive...even for a family with a lot of money.
I think you just need to tell your dad how your feeling. Tell him that you love him and you know that he just wants the best for you and that your really gonna try harder to listen to him and look at things through his point of view...but that means he needs to look throught your point of view also! Its hard to be a teen and im sure he remembers that..and hopefully you guys cna work things out becuase im sure he loves you and only wants wats best! =]
hope this helped!
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I CANT TAKE IT. My grandma is such a neat freak and when i set something down in one room and go to another, next thing know the things got moved and I hate it when my stuff gets moved. Oh. and another thing is shes bitching all the time.
She babysits this one kid named jordy and it seems like she likes him better. What should I do? (link)
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well first of all just remember this; your grandmother loves you and everything she does is for your own good. all you need to do is politely say grandma can you not move my stuff please, if you want me to move it just ask and i will. and about the little boy, if i were you i would just come straight out. i would say grandma im sorry if im making a mess and ill try to cut it out but you make me feel like you like jordy more than me. hopefully shell understand! i hope this helps =]
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