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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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it sounds to me like your mother cares a little bit too much about looks. obviously she thinks having perfect makeup and hair lead to a perfect life. you need to tell her that it makes you feel bad when she says your ugly, and you would really appreciate it if she would stop. you just need to be upfront about it. i think its nice looks arent top priority for you cause you can bet they arent for me! i never wear makeup! it sounds like shes trying to relive her perfect childhood through you and you should let her know this bugs you and would she please just not talk about looks, cause there are more important things in life
i hope i helped!
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