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Ok, so my name is Jess. That's how I'll start off. I'm your typical 14 year old. Hanging out with friends, shopping, listening to music you now a regualr teenage girl. I absolutely love to sing and act and have always for basically my whole life time. I probably came out of my mother singing. I love emo, rock, and punk music. I also like helping others, although I can be conceided sometimes, but who isn't. But I'm always there for the people who need me.
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my dad i really care for him but he dosnt no my b-day or anything about me he left when i was i was three have not seen in a year or two i relly care for and i still love even tho he has a alcolo probmelm and drugs and many more my mom has a oder of precettion and i can only see him when someone else is there what should i do i relly miss him and i dont no if him loves me please help me
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girlygirl4real
My parents split for awhile this year, the cause was alcoholism with my dad. coming home late every night you know the basics. my dad is one of my best friends so i have an idea of how you're feeling tell your mom that you'd really like to help your dad out and see him more. tell her you understand how she feels with the whole protection situation but just let her know how much you miss him. ask her to set up dates for you guys to see eachother.
hope i helped
Simply_Jess
I'm 15 and my sister is 14 and she cuts herself. I just found out like 45 mins ago bc she left me a comment on my xanga saying she has a career she was looking into but she didnt know how much it paid and she wouldnt tell me what it was so I figured that maybe she searched it up on the search bar. When I checked the search bar history I found a bunch of stuff about "I cut myself" and "I cut myself and a friend wants me to stop" and such. Then, since it's late at night and she usually is in the basement at night, I tried to sneak downstairs but she caught me.
Well she started casually talking to me and asking me why I was downstairs and I looked at her arms and saw they were bloody and I almost started crying but then I mentioned how I found the articles and started asking her about it and she just smiled goofily and I looked at her arms and saw all these scars I saw before but never thought of as cutting herself just from cats. And I said "why would you do something so stupid, whos your friend" and she said "dont tell anyone, it doesnt matter, you used to cut yourself" (which I briefly cut my wrists for 3 months last fall, it was a dumb mistake and I even told her that I only did it because I thought it would make my problems go away but it never helped) and she just tried to play it off as a huge joke, and said dont tell anyone, its not a big deal. But it was! These weren't little puny cuts they werent to big but not puny! She said she doesnt tell ppl about them (xcept that friend) but thats why she wears hoodies all yr.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I want to tell my parents but I dont want her to get mad. I really want to tell my best friend but she's not online and I'm just confused. This is my baby sister and I dont want her hurting herself. I asked her why she was doing this to herself and she didnt have a clearcut response but argh.
Please help. I really need some guidance on this I'm very confused.
Your sister must have some reason for hurting herself and her body. She might just want to know how you felt for those months you did. I wouldn't tell your parents just yet, just try to talk to her give her the most support you could give a little sister. I know if my baby sister ever got herself I would stick by her 100% of the way until the problem stopped. Just give her as much love and support as you can.
hope i helped
Simply_Jess