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ok so sorry this is sorta long. well i came downstairs today and my mom is sitting at the computer looking at flights and she goes, "ok so there is this mothers weekend thing at ur sisters college, but its the weekend of your birthday." (she was asking me what i thought, but ovbiously she was already looking at flights so she wanted to go there.) so i told her it was fine whatever, to go. then i just walked away. then i hear her quickly call my sister and say, "shes fine, im coming." i am so mad. not only is it my bday its my sweet 16. its like she likes my sister better and cares nothing about my birthday. would anyone else be offended/upset if this happened? i just dont know what to do. i feel like crap. (link)
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tell her that you only said it was ok because you were upset. say that it's really important to you that she's there on your birthday especially cuz its ur sweet 16. doesn't she remember how important that birthday iz? good luckk
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i have always had a great relationship with my mom but lately its been getting so annoying. if she tells me to clean up every little thing in the living room, i dont yell at her, i just mimick her in my head and do what she says. shes always complaining about how hard her life is, and how we have no money (which i have heard since i was waaay too young to worry about money), and she even complains about how much she hates coming home to this house everyday. sometimes i get realy angry and i say some sarcastic comment back and she starts going off about how hard her life is and how i shouldnt talk to her like that. it just makes me feel guilty for saying anything at all. (link)
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my mom always talks about money and how we don't have a lot also. it sux and it's really hard...trust me i know. i think the best thing to do is tell her how you feel. tell her you don't like it when she says things like that because it's not really your problem. say it would make you a lot happier if she would stop, but make sure she knows that you're not trying to insult her. good luck!
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