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Well, My names Samantha, I love giving advice, It's better to talk about problems because that actually solves them. I love Listening to music (rap, r&b, ect.), I love watching basketball since my boyfriend plays it I go to a lot of his games, I love sports, Swimming, Soccer, Dancing ect, I love hanging out with friends, and Talking on the internet. My friends say I give really good advice so I thought I'd give this thing a try, I'll answer any question as long as it's no rude/bitching questions towards me, otherwise I'll help with anything. My birthdays October 23, so I'll be 14 soon. It's weird because I feel so much older, and when I tell people I'm only 13 they think I'm lieing because I look like I'm 16 lol. I've gone through a lot of things early so, I'm someone you can probably relate to on a lot of subjects, or I've already been through what your going through. One thing I can say to everybody is don't be immature and don't talk shit or get so obsessed with someone that you look at their shit and write something rude to them because it just shows that you still care about them and what their doing, if you don't like someone just leave them alone. Espectually if you can't even say who you are, and don't let what anyone says get to you because thats just what they want. So any questions just ask by clicking ask a question above or click ask me for advice underneath this, please leave a comment and a rating on my advice. Thanks
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my mom told my sister she was virgin and now im not sure if hse is our real mom what should i do she beats me so i cant ask her and i cant tell anyone or she will beat me more HELP SAM
Okay, you MUST listen to everything I have to say because this is a SERIOUS matter. Theres two possabilities about your mom being a virgin. One is she could've just told you sister that to be a role model so your sister wouldn't do it. Two is you can be a virgin and get pregnant by messing around with someone and they cum on you it could end up getting into you and that way you'd get pregnant. Theres a way you can tell if shes been pregnant is if she has stretch marks on her stomach, because you get them from that, they might be faint though depending on your moms age. But what about your dad? talk to him about it, or talk to somebody you need to let this out. I know you say that you can't tell anyone but she'll beat you more but you HAVE to tell the cops or someone close to you thats a grown up because the right person will make sure your mom doesn't ever do that to you again. It's not your fault your moms like this because you did nothing wrong. Theres something wrong with her and she needs to get help, and in order to get help you HAVE to tell. If you don't you could wind up dead because your mom went too far without realizeing it. For your families safety you have to. It's so sad and makes me wanna cry but you have to. I read this book once the title was "A child called it" it was about this little boys journey on how his mother beat him and what she did to him, how he told on her, ect. Anyways you've gotta realize that no matter what evenutally someone WILL find out, because the little boy in the story they suspected it and the nurse checked him out and he admitted it was true. No matter how you try and hide it it will come out sometime, nobody can hide something forever. But you MUST tell someone!
Hope I helped and I'm sorry for what you have to go through.
*Samantha
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