My column is supposed to be a place where people can feel free to write down what's been bugging them, things that they really need help with. It's an open and free site, where no one should be discriminated or made fun of. Now I know I may be young, but you will find that I can be very objective, but also emotionally able to put myself in your position and to help in every way possible!
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Age: 15
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Were having issues in my family, my grandmother who I love dearly, is in a nursing home she's very old but she's still living, near death I believe though. :/ My fathers family, are very greedy and they bought her house and they have helped her with her nursing home payments but I'm worrying terribly because in 8 months if shes still living, my mother and fathers moeny for her to stay will run out, and my uncle will have to sell our house or by our house. We will have to move, and I truly don't want to I have been living here ever since I was born and I don't want to leave :/ We live in the country and my father and his father built our house, which use to be where my gma lived when she was young, and my grandfather who passed told my dad to always take care of my gma, and my father has..my fathers done everything for her, when my uncle is greedy and truly doesn't care about his mother..and I just don't know what to do..or how to stop worrying about this, I don't wish for my grandmother to pass, but I don't want to leave when my dad loves where we live. (link)
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This sounds like a difficult situation! And a quite difficult question to answer honestly! I understand how you feel...and it was pretty stupid of your uncle to do that. There's not much that I can offer...but maybe you should talk to your parents about this. It seems to me that you posted this question on this page, because you have no one to talk to. You've been keeping this fear inside for a while, afraid to let it out. But if you never tell someone, how will they know? They don't know how you feel because you haven't told them. Maybe if you do, they can do something to fix this! All I'm saying is talk to your parents! I'm sure they will help you in some way!
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My parents don't like my best friend at all. Just because of a little thing that happened like 7 months ago that i swear, wasn't a big thing. i asked them why they don't like her and they just said "i dont know, just something about her." i've been friends with her long enough and shes a good person. they won't tell me anymore and when i asked more questions they yelled at me. and my status on facebook was about my parents hating my friend and she commented asking if it was about her :/ why, i dont know. but do i tell her? and how do i get them over not liking her? please help me (link)
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From a lot of experience I know that parents can sometimes be horrible people! Annoying, interfering, no sense making people, and the worst is that they think whatever their doing is always right! This is your friendship, and your parents don't get to choose your friends, so if you got over what happened and you forgave your friend, they should too! I mean, do you like all of your parents friends?? Tell your parents that! But you should tell your friend, don't make her think that you can't be friends anymore, just let her know so she can maybe act a little different around your parents, extra nice or something! Talk to your parents, you have a right to be herd!
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