PLEASE KEEP in mind she only said the nasty thing about online advice websites when we were fighting. Three days ago my mom was cranky and
kept snapping at me to the point we had a a tiff. During the course of the fight she said; I
know you ask questions about weight and other things on the computer, these people are
not experts, I see what you do; (But she really does not see because I log out when she
comes near my computer) And of course she and I went back and forth saying nasty things
to one another. (But I like asking and getting advice on Advicenators and other websites
like Advicenators and the advice makes me feel better.) SO MY QUESTION: If you were
me (or even it happened to you) and someone criticizes the people that you get advice
from online how would you handle it? I mean would you ignore, defend it or other (and
tell me what the other is) and why
Well I would either tell them that I like hearing other people's opinion and that's there no harm in listening to what someone else has to say and that it really doesn't matter what you think about it because it has nothing to do with you. BUT!!! Because we are talking about your MOTHER you cannot say that!!! Just either tell her that you think there's no harm in getting advice from other people because most of the people we get advice from over the course of our life are not experts. Or you can just ignore it so you won't cause another argument. But whatever you do make sure you stay respectful.
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thank you so so so so much! i'm really glad that you didn't judge me about being pregnant at 13 you're advice really helped me my parents know and theyre excited and dissapointed to.but i will keep my head held up high and be proud.
You're very welcome and if you need to talk again feel free to contact me.
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okay so im annoyed. my parents dont let me hang out with guys. and it sucks because im friends with A LOT of guys in my school. and so sometimes (like today) my friend asked to come over my house friday and swim (a girl) and i said id ask my mom cause i wanted her to come and swim at my house, and then later on my friend asks if her AND this guy can come over and i told her i was busy but im really not, but i dunno what to do cause im just so mad my parents wont let me hang with guys. please dont say 'talk to ur parents' cause ive tried. but i can only hang with guys if its at someone elses house and my parents dont even know. i dont wanna say "i cant hang with guys' because ppl have seen me hang with guyys. (im SO sorry if this is confusing) i just dont know how to tell my friends, and a lot of them are guys and i just hate when people wanna hang out, i feel so excluded.
Okay I remember those days also. My parents were like that too. Maybe you need to talk to your friends and let them know that you can only invite girls right now. I'm pretty sure that you are not the only one. And as far as saying that you can't hang out with guys, it's more like you can't hang out with guys at your house. Believe me it doesn't help with the parent situation at all if you have been hanging with guys and they don't know and catch you. You really need to talk to your parents about how you feel.
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