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well let's see here it goes i am 21 years old female my sister is 30 years old and she moved in on Thursday mom made a special trip to Florida to get her after she beat up my mom and beat me up and she only wants to live with us when she has know where else to and when she doesn't have a girl friend that she can move in with yes I said girlfriend she is gay . she has a 10 year old son and a 12 year old daughter that my mom have custody of because she had her kids walking in a drug infested neighborhood at night with no shoes no jacket and we were not allowed to see them . she has showed her 12 year old daughter sex toys in the past while she has stayed with us. I think that she is on drugs she doesn't care about anybody but herself . my other sister who lives in Texas can't stand her either. I am scared of because she hits me cusses me and i have told mom before that i am scared of her and I don't have the money to get my own place so I can't move out . her girlfriends always come first before her sister her mom and her kids . she gave me a bloody nose one day and hurt me so bad I had to go to the emergency room that was about 2 years ago when that happened and she is already bossing me around she hasn't changed at all . what should I do . (link)
Well, first of all, she is a disgrace! You never put ANYONE, other than family members, first in your life! Your mother gave birth to you, so she should be number 1.

You sister seem to want everything her way and she seems like the kind of person who lose her temper easily. It takes courage to stand up to anyone who bullies or treat you like shit. But hey, if you're tired of it, then you mist take a stand. I don't know who she think she is to be acting like she's the boss, when she's not, but someone needs to put her ass in check!

You see, I'm the kind of person that don't take anyone's bullshit, I stand up for myself because I don't tolerate people treating me like shit. So, if I were in your position, I'd have a talk with her and make sure EVERY single damn word gets through her head, but with people like her, you need to stand your ground. Don't let her know that you're scared. Be confident!




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