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Q: My mom is punishing me because i got an In danger of failing in math. She told me No Comp. for 2 weeks, I dont really want that so I go on anyway. She caught me on and started cursing about how she doesnt trust me and how I "ripped her heart out" and how I'm disrespecting her, I had plans with my best firend tomorrow which she's making me cancel and she's just mad. I don undestand why she has to be on my back about it, she should just let me be. She talks about how she doesnt want the punishment to get bad, but she's making it bad, no one is forcing her to make things this bad, she's doing it on her own.
What can I do?!
-Jordan
13, Female.
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Haha.
I remember being 13.
I used to think my parents were out to get me.
Also, I have a 12 year old sister, who get ANYTHING and EVERYTHING she wants.
Yeah, I still get attention.
But I mean...
I get in trouble more and yelled at more.
Parents will be parents.
You may not believe me buttt...
She probably has a good reason.
All of this will pay off. Believe it or not, she's a GOOD mom.
If she just "let you be", you would probably fail or something.
She's just pushing you to be the best you can be.
And maybe she knows that this isn't your BEST.
You can do better.
Be thankful she cares.
Some mom's don't talk to their kids about school, love life, families, ect.
Some mom's couldn't care less what they're kids eat or drink or do.
Your mom does.
Believe it or not, I would say you're pretty dang lucky.
I mean, I'm only 15 so I'm still at the argumentative age but I'm really starting to get over that phase.
I'm starting to appreciate my mom for what she DOES do. Not comment on what she DOESN'T do.
Trust me, babe.
We are in the same boat.
=D
Parents can be a bit frustrating at times.
You may argue with them and stuff.
Buttt...
I learned a new trick.
=D
When your mom tells you what you did wrong, don't argue or disagree with her.
Even is you DO disagree, if you don't say a word, it'll be over in like, 2 seconds.
You'll get off the hook and she won't be mad.
Just say "Yes Ma'am."
And it'll work out.
Take my advice ONCE and tell me how it goes.
It's a lot easier than arguing with her.
Because trust me, you'll never win.
Take your punishment.
If you break it, there will be WORSE consequences.
Especially if you get caught.
Sorry this is so long.
haha
I just have a LOT to say on this topic and I appluade you if you made it this far but if you didn't, that's okay too.
haha
Well, hun, you can IM me on AIM
My screen name is xoxokaylanicole
OR
If you have a myspace, my myspace link is on my page.
=D
Best of luck.
I hope I helped you in any way.
And I'm extremely sorry if I didn't.
[[♥KAY-LUHH]]
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I'm Kayla.
I have blonde hair.
Green eyes.
:]
Make me smile,
I'm yours.
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Texas Occupation: Student Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: January 4, 2007 Answers: 6 Last Update: May 26, 2007 Visitors: 2198
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