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Hey. I always feel left out. My family never seems to listen to me. I'm not the youngest or the oldest. My older sister always gets credit for her wonderful achievements, and my younger sister always gets credit for being so "cute" I'm left in the middle. It seems everyone always forgets about me and I dont know what to do. Sometimes I feel my family forgets I exist. They're never home with me, but instead at my younger sister's softball games or my other sisters shows. (she is in performing arts shows) Help!

Well, I dont have any siblings, so I don't really know the feeling. I guess the only thing you can do is tell your family how it feels. Find a time when your family isnt to busy and tell them what you told me. They do care about you, and of course they know you exist!! Sorry this isnt Help!Good luck

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My mom just recently told me she wants to move out, but told me not to tell my dad yet. she said she thinks it will be best for the family and doesnt listen to me when i say that she is best for the family. she says that our dad will be happier and we will be happier, but i dont agree. she said she wouldnt move until she got a job and had some money, but what should i do in the meantime?

thx for your help,
worriedwonderer

worriedwonderer,
I think you should respect your mom's wishes but have serious talk with her. Make her listen and tell her that her desicion is NOT the best for your family, and that you NEED her. Explain to her what it would be like for you without her always around. Tell her to have a talk with your dad about this. She needs to be discussing this with him and not making you keep it to your self. Good luck and Hope this helped!!
~Erin!

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