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My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).
Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.
I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).
My problem is my mother.She's always been an mental abuser and only to me.She says that "I'll never be anything","I'll never go to college,and even if I did I'd fail it","Ill never be anything in life,or have a husband let alone a boyfriend"... That was just this week.
She said that to me because I told her to "hold on one moment" while I was filling up water bottles,and she wanted me to look for a phone number for her.It only took 2 minutes and I couldn't look away or I'd have water on the floor.
My sister is a major suck up to our mother.She sides with her even when moms wrong.She won't stick up for anyone and can't even keep a job that long.she keeps calling out at work and lying to them about why.I tell her to quit it and I get screamed at by mom (mom encourages her to call out).
Right now I got no friends,because I don't have time.I got no other family to go to,and right now mother plans on leaving with my sister.They plan to go to grandma's and I can't come.she made that clear.Were all old enough to be on our own,but we weren't ever encouraged or pushed to go on our own.Our mother was one of those ones that did everything for you,even when you didn't want her to (tried getting her to stop,but that only made her mad and she'd guilt me into letting her).
So where do I go?Do I leave my job and beg my deadbeat dad to go,live with him in another state?
Or do I take my chances on the street?If I do that I lose everything I own. (link)
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It seems to me your mother and sister are holding you back from life. You need to leave that situation now. Do whatever it takes to get on your own. A second job may be necessary , even if it is in the evening.
Get a paper route if you are able to; you might be surprised at how well a paper route can pay. Scratch and claw and do whatever it takes (within the law) to make yourself a success. Don't make any excuses for yourself about how life dealt you a bad hand or how you can't get another job. Your life is in your hands, take control. If you can do it sooner before your mother and sister are able to get to your grandmothers that would be best.
Right now they are relying on you as you are them. Its time to teach them a lesson and pull the rug out. You should always honor your parents for if it weren't for them you wouldn't be here. However right now it is time for your action. You only have one shot at life and your time is now. Don't let your family hold you down any longer. "With the weight on his shoulders Atlas Shrugged."
Make your own path. Good luck.
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Here's the situation:
I am a Baptist. My in-laws and my husband are Methodists. My husband and I attend a Baptist church. Under most circumstances, I don't pay attention to denominational differences, because I think we're all going to the same place anyway.
The problem is that my in laws, especially my mother-in-law, have made it clear that they don't like the fact that we're going to the "wrong" church. Earlier we even suggested that they could come to church on Christmas Eve with us, and my mother-in-law burst into tears and ran out of the room.
Evidently, the fact that I am not a Methodist offends them deeply. I don't want to join a different church just to please them, though. Any thoughts on what to do that doesn't involve hurting everyone's feelings? (link)
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Screw their feelings; they obviously don’t care much for your feelings. As many people often do, they are completely missing the point of religion, church, spirituality, Christianity, whatever you want to call it. For these people it is more about being Methodist or Catholic than it is about being a Christian. You could pray that your mother-in-law be raptured immediately NOW. Somebody give me an Amen!
First of all, you shouldn’t do ANYTHING to please that bitch who bore your husband. I’m sorry, but this is the most ridiculous thing I have heard in quite some time. I did not know the Methodists thought so highly of themselves versus the other denominations. And don’t worry about your husband’s feelings on this; you are the woman and therefore the boss. He doesn’t have any say in this whatsoever.
You should consider becoming Catholic. After all, no one thinks more highly of themselves than Catholics. Then when you get together with your in-laws you could taunt and tease her for being a lowly Methodist. You could even come up with a little chant similar to what you might here at a college sporting event. Just sing, "Catholic Rejects" while pointing in her direction, and make sure to clap your hands to the beat and make it fun; or "The Methodist Church has got to go, hey hey, ho ho".
Another fun thing to do would be to join a holy-roller church. You know, the ones where they dance with rattle snakes while drinking turpentine. If your mother-in-law gives you any guff, just throw a snake in her lap.
That ought to learn her a lesson. If not, you could always become Mormons. You probably would not approve of your husband having more wives, but trust me on this one. Just think, instead of having just you to hate on, your mother-in-law would have 6 or 7 other daughters-in-law to worry about. That's 6 or 7 other wives in your corner to gang up on your mother-in-law. Then she will have a real reason to shed some tears.
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My husband and I attended His brother's daughter's wedding. We are the very immediate family.All of my husband's brothers and sisters(also immediate family) and their spouses were seated at the front of the room at table 1 and 2 ,however we were assigned seats in the very back of the room.We were surprised and saddened by their choice to put us there. The whole family is very kind ,loving and religious.There are no problems between any of us, we really love all of them. We feel so hurt. Should we address this? If so ,Is there a polite way to do it?I am lost and so hurt. Thank You (link)
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The question you need to ask yourself is why they seated you in the back of the room. Maybe they just don't like you and that was their cowardly way of telling you so. Are you annoying, self-centered, untidy, or just plain ugly? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then BINGO there's your answer, and I would suggest avoiding any public appearances from here on out. Of coarse I'm joking, mostly, and if anyone reading this takes me seriously then just take your head and stick it where the sun don't shine. You were wronged and made to be fools in front of your family and friends and you have every right to be outraged.
Not only were you not seated in the front at one of the family tables, you were assigned to sit in the back of the room. I can understand if space was limited and not everyone could sit at table 1 or 2, however, they didn't even make an attempt to seat you somewhat close to the front with the rest of the immediate family. Your so-called loving, caring, and religious in-laws chose to make complete asses of themselves by doing the same to you. Now it’s time to let the fun begin.
Revenge is sweet, fun, and justified. Most of the politically correct advice columnists in print would not agree with this revenge verdict, but that is because they are weak little cowards. There are several things you can do to get even:
Have your family and friends over for a party or holiday dinner, including your own personal family as well as your in-laws. When you all sit down to eat, make sure you seat your in-laws as far back in the room as possible, maybe even in another room. Better yet, have them sit at the kiddie table with the kids, assuming you or those flaming jackasses you call in-laws have any children.
You could confront them directly and ask them why they chose to embarrass you and your husband in front of everyone you know and love. If you don't get the answer you like, throw a drink in their face and ask them again why they chose to be rude and embarrass you in front of everyone you know and love. If you still don't get the answer you are looking for, throw another drink in their face.
Here’s yet another great way to accomplish your goal of getting even. You need to get each one of your husband's brothers and sisters together for a little one-on-one talk, each individually and not as a group. When you are alone together talking, drop something on the floor in front them. When they bend over to pick it up, kick them in the ass. However, maybe that task would be better handled by your husband.
Donald Trump was right on when he suggested recently getting even when someone takes advantage of you. Anyone cannot deny how good it feels to get revenge. At the very least you or your husband needs to confront your family on this issue. It doesn't matter how nice, loving, or self-righteously religious they are, if you do not get an answer, or at the very least some closure, this will eat you alive. You were wronged and it's time to make it right.
Now go out and have a nice sunshiny day!
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