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Hello. The name is Sarah. I am 16 and home schooled at the moment. I am expected to graduate class of 2005. I am in love with the Fiance, Brandon. He and our relationship mean the world to me and more. We are getting married June of 2006. You can send me questions and I will be sure to answer back.
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(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice?
Dear Wicked Stepmother,
I am going to give it to you plain and simple. You need to go to your step mom and talk to her about the problem. You need to voice out everything that you told us. Tell her that it hurts your feelings when she talks about your Mother. That is your Mother and no matter who it might be, you do not want to hear someone talking badly about her. That is so disrespectful. Also bring up the fact on how she insults your taste in style. What you wear and how you advertise yourself is expressing who you are on the inside. That is why when someone makes fun of what we look like we get so upset. Just talk to her like a normal human being and not like she is your step Mom. Keep in mind that by being calm and discussing with her your problems, you are being the adult. If she does not hear you out, go to your Dad. Your Dad loves you and he should be able to help the problem. You also have to respect that your Dad loves this person too, and you should not talk badly about her. Just confront the problem in any way that you can and all should go well. Good luck.
♥Sarah