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heyy, im Rachel and im 15 w/ blonde hair & blue eyes. im a sophmore at RMHS [soon to be junior!].i LOVE meeting new people & helping people w/ problems, so ask away!!
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Alright I can't get a gf, they all reject me. Gosh even during church they do! What can I do to get someone to like me that I have already asked out, but I really like not because of looks.
Is it even possible?
--Jordan
13
hey hun, you don't absolutely HAVE to get a gf..friends are sometimes better. but i definitely understand where you're coming from, and i know who this is..i think =) so anyway, sometimes you just need to not try so hard. i know it sounds weird but it's true. like you can't get your hopes up too high when you get to know a girl and you start liking them..and most of the time, at this age anyway, people are mean and inconsiderate =\ soo it helps to just sort of forget about getting a gf, and just make a friend ...and then things can turn out so much better than friends, meaning that it could end that you go out w/ that girl =) so i suggest that you choose wisely and not get your hopes up too high, b/c that always SUCKS!!! and wait til you find that "one special girl" if you know what i mean, b/c i'm positive she'll come along soon enough.. and at this age, its always hard to know when we found that special person b/c we're too young to understand stuff. and trust me, it'll be so much better when you've found someone who you like a lot b/c it'll most likely last so much longer and the whole relationship will be SO much better than just "puppy love".. or than just a simple crush. and i think that overall you'll have a lot more together when you do find someone who is right for you. also, if they can't like you for who you are, then they aren't worth it! and to tell you the truth, i'm in the same situation now..i can't seem to find someone who is right for me, then again no one is perfect..but yeah. so what i'm doing is just simply forgetting that i don't have anyone, and think about the good stuff that i DO have, and i know that that "one special guy" will come along sometime..."best things come to those who wait" ..i hope i helped, and good luck! love ya lots
love always,
*rachel
:/ well..ive been going through a lot lately. Im still not exactly sure whay happened...but one day after school my mom told me that dad went to the hospitol cuz hes depressed.A day later he got transferred to this phychiatric hospitol. (nothing like the padded walls where ppl are extremely crazy) but its a place for ppl who are depressed and stay there and see phychiatrists and stuff. I viisited him once but i acted coldly towards him...things were awkward plus i was scared. What can i do to make him feel better? I dont want to slip into depression also...how long could he be there for? Also..my Math A regents is coming up in jan. and i seriously need help in that...its jus so much goin on right now..
wow. this must be hard for you. i think that you should maybe ask your mom, if you feel comfortable, about whats going on if your confused. also, i can talk to you more about this in person, maybe if you email me or IM me...honeybuns530 is my screen name, and my email is re.dewoody@verizon.net
feel free to talk to me anytime. im here for you, i went through the same thing with my dad!