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Okay... Usually I'm one of those people who take advice.. and alot of it! I've come to find though that I have alot of good advice to give. I come from a HUGE family, so if you need any family advice i'm most likely here to answer it all for you! It's sorta a been there done that situation. I'm one of six amazing kids and i'm next to the baby. I'm 18, I have 2 brothers [8, 21] and 3 sisters [21,21, and 19]. I have two sorta crazy whacked up parents that i love deeply. I have 4 in-laws. I also have 4 amazing nephews.. I know alot about babies too on that note. I know alot about computers for w/e reason. I give credit of that to my uncle and my old teacher that I had 6 years straight. I know about alot of stuff.. Need an idea for a history project.. I'm like a history guru n a half.. big nerd and my brother is a soon to be history teacher. I'm in Beauty school if u need hair tips as well..... I know music too, money, and im queen of awkard situations .. I can help just about ne1 with those.. I stole from a store once and got caught. I'm prolly one of the only x cheerleaders who have went to a voactional school for Carpentry (Which i got n a fight w/ a girl there, and got n a fight with a cop n the principal) and then got kicked out. Waddah life right? I have 12 aunts n uncs from the moms side not including the ppl they've married. Then i have 16 from the fathers not including the inlaws. I know how to deal with death quite well. Actually now as i'm typeing this i lost a uncle that was very dear to me last night, and my other favorite uncle only but a month n a half ago. I've done the whole anti depressant bipolar thing. It runs in the family. I have consistand mood swings. I'm hard to read so you never know whats really on my mind. I am also very smart when it comes to animals. I only have like 12 cats and 2 dogs 2 horses and 2 hermet crabs. I used to have like the whole farm thing w/ the chickns too! crazynessss.... I really don't know what else to say.. 0o000oo.. wait.. I have loved to.. i don't know if i mentioned that or not. I have been with a guy for almost 4 years now. I love him dearly! I've been to hell and back w/ him and i wouldn't of done nething different to change it..... yadda yadda yaddah~! =D
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I have a neice who lives with me, only seven years old. Im fourteen, and you know, we fight alot. This really aggravtes my parents, and Rays (Neices name) mom. But they dont believe me when i say that she starts most of the fights. Anyways, getting to the point. I really dont want to tell my parents or my friends this but- sometimes she really gets under my skin, and hurts my feelings. I know, it sound so stupid, but we used to be really close when she was little, i dont know what happened. I really dont. When i pass by her in the family room, shes watching tv, and VERY INNAPPROPRIATE THINGS! She watches mtv, and shes only seven! Shes clearly (in our family) not allowed to watch anything pg-13. Fair enough, so SHE DOES. She has full control of the remote, and knows where all the channels are. I just caught her watching jerry springer! Ive tried telling my mom and dad, but they wont listen to me. They say shes just an 'innocent little girl' and how the heck could she watch something like that?
WRONG
seriously, i think this is getting to her head, she just said her first curse word yesterday, i curse alot, lol, but i mean shes only SEVEN! I really dont want her to grow up badly.
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You should be lucky that shes not as bad off as some other kids. I have two little cousins who can name most of the drugs that are abused by adults and they will straight up tell you when their mom and dad are having sex. The little girl just turned 8 and the little boy is 6. They also cuss their parents out and spit in their faces. I also have a little brother. He's 8 and hes also very spoiled. He's allowed to do what he wants (family guy,R rated movies etc.) but he doesn't cuss, he gets his mouth washed out or threatend to get his games taken away. It's really not your job to try to raise someone else's kid. I know shes your cousin and you feel that you need to do something and the fact shes always in your hair doesn't help. Try to avoid her. Thats what i do with my brother. Lock yourself in your room, threaten to take their stuff away, and if that doesn't help catch her up in what she does. It can't be that hard. Shes only 7 right?




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