Im a young male with a nack for advise i love helping people i always have all my freinds come to me for help even my teachers family too and even people i don't know. people ask me about anything thats goin on in their lifes relationships, death, family, jobs, even whay am i here ? whats my purpose? and if u ask you can find out.... and the funny thing is im only 14 years old!
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Location: erie pa
Age: 14
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Hi I'm a 20 yr/F. the problem that's occurring in my family is that my sister is neglecting her family. she is 21yrs old and in love with this guy who is 19 yrs old. i have no problem if she likes him or not, but she is totally obsesses with him. she cant stop thinking about him. the main point is that they're just friends. she always tells everyone that oh we're just friends. she always calls him 24/7 and always goes to visit him. she lives with me and our parents and doesn't give our parents respect. she always tells them lies and she occasionally steals money from them. just for this guy. and whenever she would go out to see him she wouldn't come back till 4 in the morning. i know u guys think that oh shes 21 and that she has her freedom, but she's dependent on our parents. and our religion does not allow smoking and drinking which she does and lies striaght to my parenbts face while shes drunk. i really need your help...please help me solve this problem. how can we keeep her under control cause shes totally out of it..?? (link)
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My best advise is to stop her maybe an intervinstion, maybe you should let her go and see how far she gets with out you or your parents see if she has no money no place to stay but with him and see how she feels when she has to live off of the 19n y/o boy the things she does is just for attention she wants your parents to know that she can do better but she can't come back from where shes at, let her know that she is loved and if she wants to be with someone who you don't know will take care with you if your parents gave up on her. let her do as she will but, mom and dad dont give her anything but your love and compassion let her know that this is the line let her know that we dont care if you have fun but you are not going to mooch off of us and treat us like we are pack mule tell her that what goes around comes around show her that you dont care at first but dnt let her know that you do see how far she can make it without you and your parenst im only 14 and i have way more since than most adults no offence . but if she can treat the three most important people in her family like when i walk you bow. and even the most important your parents the she has gone to far. that relationship is putting her head in the wrong place. Thanks
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