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okay, so my mom hates everything about me so, I make up things that happen at school, like I tell my mom that the boy I like has said I'm sry about a billion times to me b/c of something that really happened but he only told me once, should I stop telling her lies to make her happy with my school life( which is better than my home life)or no??? (link)
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Simply put Yes! There's no excuse for lies. It's time for "Mom" to get her head out of the sand. Kids have problems, just like adults. Only the adults are supposed to be grown-up enough to help their children's problem, not the other way around. Your mother is the adult here, not you. Give her that right back, and you, get back to being the daughter again. Good luck to you.
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VERY LONG BUT I RATE HIGH!
my dad. i dont know how to explain him.. he divorced my mom when i was 3 and i guess my mom walked out on me. she came back so now i see her every other weekend. my dad and her still fight sometimes and he gets frustrated with her easily. everyone at my dads house always says bad stuff about my mom, including my brother, so i defend her as best i can and my dad gets really angry. i live with him & my grandparents & my brother. i cry at least one time a day but i dont cut or anything like that. i just cry alot. hes very agressive, smokes, drinks, and takes pills. i dont know what to do though because im not sure why hes like this and he always takes it out on ME. i cant go to a psychiatrist because he wont let me or anything and i dont wanna tell the police or anything because he doesnt physically hurt me, only emotionally. oh and please dont tell me to talk it out with him because he will not do that :(
well if you have ANY advice then please help. & i am a 15/f if it changes anything :/ (link)
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It's going to be hard for you to take advice in your situation. But talk to a counselor at school. Tell them what is occurring. Is your mother settled enough to take you? I hate to see you have trouble there as well. But it sounds as though you're going to have to take the 1st step in clearing this up. Expect bad and good times while going through this. But if you're bold enough to come this far you're bold enough to go the rest. I pray for only the best for you. Good luck
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