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Hey, I'm Anthony. I am a sophmore in high school. I play the accordion, and music is my passion. I also love photography. I'm here mainly because people tell me I give great advice, and sometimes I need a little too. Thanks. Hope I can help you.
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I have just found out that my father is cheating on my mother.
This isn't the first time.
My mom came very close to catching him but things were okay after some time and now its happening again.
I was going to use the phone,and when I turned it on,I heard my dad saying the groses thing[if you know what I mean]
I can't believe it!!
My moms been wanting to have another baby for like 5years and now my dads cheating.
I can't stop shaking.
After what happened the last time I know I CANNOT tell my mom.
But what do I do,I can't let this go.
See,when I was a few days old as a baby the women who gave birth to me abandoned my and my dad.When I was 3 my dad married my mom[step mom]and she's been there for me as a mother ever since.
If she found out she'd probrably take my little sister[shes 6yers old]and leave.Then I once again won't have a mother anymore.And I can't let that happen.
So what do I do?
Wow, the situation you are in is horrible, and I'm sorry for it. Now, this may sound bizzare, but I think you need to talk to your dad about this. If you cant tell him, then you should go to your step/mom, clarify how you feel about her, that you dont want her to leave, and tell her. She does have a right to know, it is her marriage, and her life too, you might not want to hurt her, but keeping if from her could hurt her more. But, you do need to talk to someone, you're still young, and you shouldnt have to worry about something like this.
Hope I've helped.
My mom died 7 months ago, almost 8. but it feels like yesterday. im 15 going on 16 next may.
i was just wondering if anyone around my age has lost a parent as well. feel free to talk to me if so!
Hey,
I'm not in your exact position, but about a week before Christmas '07, my step-father died of a 4 year battle with cancer. I'm also 15, I'll be 16 in September. But believe me, I too feel like it was yesturday, I can't get the images out of my head, since it wasn't a sudden death or easy goodbye. I watched him die for months. But I think I've learned to deal with it a little. I'm here for you, if you want to talk. You can email me or IM me: AntF921.
Anthony. =)
ok so i have this step dad who has a son who's my age (15). He walked in on my boyfriend and me making out in my room and he screamed at me and grounded me for a month. Then two weeks later he caught my step brother getting a blowjob from his girlfriend and my step dad just laughed and said, "boys will be boys" and walked away. Then my boyfriend gave me a hug after school and my step dad was picking me up and he yelled at me and grounded me for another month! I spotted my step bro kissing some girl i had never met and my step dad just gave him a high five! I tried talking to my mom, but she has been really sick lately and doesnt talk much. Is this fair??? what should i do???
Ok, so I have almost been in your position myself. I have a stepfather who can be very unfair sometimes. I personally, would tell him to go screw himself. If your stepbrother is getting blowjobs and he gets praised for it, but you're only only making out and getting grounded, then he isn't being fair. But, I may be looking to far into this, because he may think that girls are more vulnerable than boys because he knows how boys think. But personally, I DO think he is being a jerk and just tell him to go shove it, and if he has a problem with that, remind him, he's NOT your father, he CANNOT tell you what to do.