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Hi there! My name is Alyssa, and I'm a teen adviser who would like to help answer any questions that you may have about teen life and beyond.If you need help with anything, please feel free to ask me, or visit my friend's website at www.freewebs.com/bt4t You'll receive lots of support there. Also, feel free to join the site. Visitors are always welcome.
Please note that I am not a professional adviser but I will do my best to answer any of your questions.
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-Alyssa-
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my mom has been with this guy for about four years, they recently got married and my family moved in with him. Before they got married he was always nice to us by buying us things we need and taking care of or probelms financially. Now that we moved in with him its been a living hell. He treats my mother like shit and can never have a convesation without screaming at her. i can see that my mother is very upset and im trying to figure out how to confront this situation. Please give me some advice
I think you need to sit your mom down and talk to her and see what going on. Sorry I am not much help...
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
My mom and I are visiting my Aunt as well as my cousins.Any way today after I had breakfast with just my mom and my aunt I went shopping on my own and then my aunt and my mom went back to my Aunts Apartment at her Assisted Living Place. About a half hour into my shopping my zipper to my purse broke. I went to a store and purchased a new purse (a bigger one to hold everything). This one does not have a zipper but a magnetic snap. Anyway I transferred all my stuff from my old purse into the new one, checked the old one to see if I missed anything and then threw the old one out at the mall when I saw I transferred everything into the new purse.When I came back to the apartment my mom saw my new purse and I told her what happened. When I told her I did not keep the old purse (that I threw it out after transferring everything from the old purse to the new purse) she asked me was I sure I took everything out of the old purse. I told her I did and she asked me three more times was I sure that I did take everything out of the old purse. I then told her that I needed to buy the new one and I asked her what she would have done and she said you know me I would have brought the old purse back to the apartment and checked the old purse a few more times. However, when she said the above to me what went through my mind is that she was implying I should have still used the old one.MY QUESTION: Am I thinking stupidly and how would you have interpreted what my mom said if she said it to you?
I think she is just impling that next time bring the old purse home just incase you did forget something.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
ive been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and in the beggining i really didnt tell my paretns cause i didnt know how they were going to react to it. Now they found out and give me nothnig but a hard time about it. They like him and all and let me see him when i want but i hate hearing bout it afterwards. I really dont know what to do. i love him but im so sick of hearing it from my parents =\
Tell your parents that it is buggin you. BUT also tell them that you won't do anything stupid, and that if you were ever unsure about something then you will go to them, and every now and then as a surprise update them on how things are going between you two.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T