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E-mail: christyjonescleckler@yahoo.com
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my ex had full custody of my 6 year old daughter,i heard stories of abuse and neglect so i called the 800 # for abuse and neglect the local cps went out said ;there were no findings' that was 2009,september 2010 they went out again because of new allegations,this time it was founded,my daughter was removed because mother and stepfather were abusing drugs neglecting my daughter,and the mother was abusing her mentally as well,this was all admitted in court by the mother,instead of me getting my child she was placed with step fathers family non blood,the mother told cps i wasnt in my childs life etc,i am applying for custody in 2 weeks,now she and stepfather get 'supervised visits' and the supervisors are the step fathers family,my daughters demeanor has changed drastically ,she rushes me off the phone non loving afraid of me so i called cps and told them mental abuse is still going on,they brush off everything i say,the law guardian has no clue about the case or my daughter,how can i get someone to advocate for my daughter?the county was told to have my daughter go to therapy i as the father set up the appointment,cps is being very relaxed but i fear now for my 6 year olds mental well being,no one is taking my claims serious no one is listening to me,and the biggest part is the mother over a 3 year period of time told my daughter that the new husband is 'daddy' i just need help to protect my daughter,when we go to court no one is prepared,or clueless,the child was removed from dutchess county n.y.,and placed in westchester county n.y.,so cps passed it along to westchester county as a 'courtesty' westchester just goes twice a month to make sure the child is ok phyisically'what rights as a father do i have? what petitions can i file in court?and since the child was removed they said it is called article 10 custody of ******,who has custody county or article 10 people?i just need help and need to get more stricter supervised visits and i need phone calls to be monitored,but am unsure on how to do so,case is in dutchess county n.y.and my daughters mom is telling cps worker that she does not want me in my daughters life and does not want me around her,so what makes a person believe that she the mother isnt feeding her head with more stuff.parental alienation is key it has and is happening,there has to be an intervention,thank u for any help/advice (link)
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Yes, i agree you need a lawyer! Your lawyer can answer all these questions you have. Keep calling child services, so they will keep going out. Don't give up! Do you pay child support? Are yall legally separated or divorced? Or were yall married to begin with? If your divorced you should have visitation rights, and there should be a putition sent to the judge by your lawyer. If you were never married, everything is gonna be even harder. Good luck, but just GET A LAWYER!!!! YOU NEED ONE! -Christy
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okay, im 17 years old and wont be turning 18 till december.. i am pregnant and due in september.. im covered under my moms medical insurance, and i know my baby wont be able to go under my moms because grandchildren are not covered by their grandparents medical. SO, i have to get my own medical so that the baby will be covered under my insurance.. because im under 18, it is to my knowledge that i have to get medical from the state because it is the cheapest and easiest way i guess..? butttt...... my mom is telling me that if i get medical from the state, my boyfriend has to pay child support to the state.. is that true? he doesnt believe me because he hates my mom and he thinks my mom is trying to screw him over... (link)
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I really don't think just because your getting "medical insurance" from the state your bf has to pay child support to the state. That doesn't even make any sense. why would he have to pay child support to the state????? He will have to pay it to you. The only way your bf is going to have to pay child support to ANYONE is if you take him to court and get a court order. I've been through this before. It's different in each state, but i'm positive that what your mom is saying is not true. The state didn't have his baby!! Thats the craziest thing i have ever heard of! Regardless of what your bf has to pay, you have to think about your baby, not him. He should be the least of your worries. Let him DEAL with what he's going to have to pay and not pay. You just need to make sure you get your child some medical insurance. Don't worry about what he's gotta pay, but i dont think he will have to. Good luck with your pregnancy!! -Christy
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