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Hi I'm MommyMurry! I'm from Alabama. I am married with 4 children and one on the way. I am a homemaker for right now. I am a member of an Assembly of God Church, in fact our family was one of the founders of this ministry. I am very involved with church and have always been. I have a special place in my heart for women and children. I have a website www.noneleftbehind.faithweb.com and on that site I post devotionals that I write. I am willing to give advice to anyone about anything so don't feel like you have to fit into some catergory if I can help you I will. I'm looking forward to answering your questions.
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Website: None Left Behind
E-mail: nicann4360@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama
Age: 24
Member Since: May 22, 2007
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Last Update: May 24, 2007
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ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do?
Hello honey I know excatly what you are going through. I got pregnant at 15 and I was super scared. I didn't tell my family until November and the baby was due in April. I knew that I wasn't having an abortion or going the adoption route. I felt ashamed and I knew that they would be embrassed as well. I know that it may be scary right now but the best thing to do right now is to tell your family. If you can't tell them ask someone you trust to talk to them with you. You will be able to think clearer after it is out in the open. Whether you keep your child or give him or her up is all up to you. Being 13 makes it harder because you're not old enough to work or have you're own place so talk to your parents and let them know how you feel about the situation because you will need help. Also don't let anyone make you feel low or like a charity case because you are not. People will always have something to say so keep that head held up high. It takes heart to face this situation instead of sneaking off having an abortion. Keep in touch with me.
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