hey, its tori,(( in the pic, im the one in the middle with the stupid look on my face. miki is smacking her forehead, and kristen is wearing black.)) just started this. i like to write, and im sensitive, and i want to help, and i kinda want to be a psycologist, cuz everyone tells me i can 'read ppl' **whatever** and anyways, im here to help......kisses...
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Okay, awhile back I liked this guy "Caleb" for almost a year. He had (and still has) a girlfriend, and "Caleb" turned me down when I told him how I felt. Now his girlfriend has moved to Canada, and he's been talking to me on AIM saying "yo" before I even say "hi" first. My mom knows what happened and how badly it hurt me when he hurt my feelings, but now him and I want to be friends. My mom told me NEVER to talk to him again on AIM because of what happened. By the way, he's three years older then me and so is his girlfriend. Now we just want to be FRIENDS, and I don't want to block him or anything, so I turn my away message on when he comes online. I'm so confused, because I don't know if his girlfriend is ever going to break up with him, and if she does, he'll be talking to me a lot about how sad he is. Any advice on how to deal with this? (link)
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i think your mom just dosent want you to gethurt. because she is your mother, and she still sees you as her little girl, and wants to protect you from anything that will hurt you. and now shes scared of this guy (who is way older than you) exploitin you and your feelings. i mean, theres always that chance that he really cares for you as a friend, and has only honest intentions, but theres also the fact that he is a guy. and guys only have enugh blood to operate eaither thier brains, or whats in thier pants, but not both at one time. so i think you should tell him to that you dont feel (or your mother dosent feel, but i wouldnt opt fot that one) comftorble talking to him on aim, and tell him he hurt your feelings,((i totally applaud you for having the guts to tell him, tho, i dont think i would have)) and you would rather not talk about his love affairs, but you still want to be friends. i hope i helped, and ifi can help anymor, drop me a line. ;-D
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