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Q: 14/f
have u ever gotten an industrial piercing?
if so does it hurt [how long]
i haven't had an industrial but it's just like gettin a double cartilage. It hurts for a couple weeks but doesnt completely heal for a month or so

Q: Ok, so I want a small "corset piercing," except, i want five on my stomach, that way, when laced, its a star. anywho, they aren't really permanent, so i want to get it for a special occasion. i don't want it to look too red or anything either, so when's the best time to get it? like, the day of the occasion, the day before, right before or the morning before (assuming the occasion is in the evening)
best thing i would go to the piercer and ask and set up an appointment thing but id say probably the same day because ive had many piercing s and the next day they are more red and more swollen and more painful

Q: 16/f. Eh, I feel like such a goody-two-shoes all the time. The other day, my friend asked me, "what's the craziest thing you've ever done?" and I couldn't answer! The only thing I could think of was, like, driving in my friend's car when she couldn't legally drive people yet. Gosh, what a rebel I am, right? Haha. Idk, I just feel like I never do anything daring or extreme and it seems like all of my friends have. The farthest I've ever gone with a boy is like, hold hands and most of my friends have gone way farther and have had like a lot more boyfriends than I've had. Ugh. I mean I'm alwaysss studying and taking school way too seriously and yes, I make the honor roll and get good grades, but seriosuly, I'm afriad I'm gonna wake up one day when I'm 30 and think to myself that I wasted all of my teenage years and never took a chance doing anything fun. My sister, for example, is always out all the time doing sometimes crazy things, but she always has fun and spends her time doing exciting things with her friends; I go out sometimes but I'm always home at like 9:00 and sometimes I'm just sitting home bored on a Friday or Saturday night with no plans and my sister is ALWAYS out at an awesome party( I honestly can't remember the last time she didn't have any plans; maybe like 4 years ago?). I love my friends and all, but the most exciting thing we do is go to the mall or out to eat. What I'm asking is; what can I do to have more fun and do something crazy so I can look back on my teenage years and know I had a good time? Sorry this is practically as long as an essay, lol.
Think of differnt places to go and plan days to go there and have fun and have parties and be with a group of friends n play games and do crazy things like in a pool or play some wild games

Q: I just got a really nasty prank phone call. I never give out my number to anyone that I don't know and I couldn't recognize the voice. They were asking me if I'd like to participate in a lesbian teen porn video so I played along and said yes. When they called, it was a restricted number. I was wondering if there was any way I could figure out the number without having to get the police involved. Just so I can figure out who it was that called. They called my cell phone by the way. So, is there a way I can trace the number?
well u didnt say they new ur name then idk call*69

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