Hey everyone!! Well where should i start? Well my name is Chelsey, i live in Connecticut. Ever since i was a little kid i was sort of the person that everone runs to and tell them their problem, and they knew that i would never tell anyone. Also I have a lot of experiance in helping people i am a Peer Mediator in my school and i have been one for 4 years now. I have heard probably every problem that you can imagine from little things to very very dangerous issues. I can't really say some of the things that i have herd because that would braking my code of confidentiallity but i'll tell you some of the things that i have been through. Well I have delt with a lot of love issues from boyfriends to even your family neglecting you from love. For example my Father was a great dad when i was younger but what happened is my parents got divorced because my Father used to abuse my Mother and my Mother knew that she had to get out of the relationship for me because she didn't want me to grow up to that and think that it was a healthy relationship. So at first he was a perfect dad like he was when he was married to my mom but soon he became a deadbeat father never paying child support and never caring about me. He became a criminal which is in prison right now. Well yeah thats all i'm really going to say about that. I have also had a whole lot of experiance with self injury because i used to inflict injuries on myself (a.k.a i used to be a cutter). Also i have had a lot of friends in the past that used to cut and i have helped them all quit because i have helped them through it but i didn't make them top i gave them the comfidence to make themselfs stop. Because i have always said you can never make anyone do anything you can only suggest things and try to make it happen. Only them can have the power to make themself do something. I also know a lot about abuse because my Mother used to be abused by my Father, her Mother and her Brother. And she has told me all about it. Also one of my close friends has been abused by her Father. I know a lot about friendships too and how to make them better. Well thats all i have to say but i am excited to be giving everyone advice soon!!! Lots of Luck to everyone but making their lives better!!
Lots of love xox,
Chel
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Location: Branford
Age: 16
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Hey has anyone out there torn their Achilles tendon? I have it is MAJOR pain. For you all who have do you still wear your brace? Well let me know
hooopster (link)
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no i don't after it felt better i didn't but if you have pains now you wear your brace cause you migt cause damage and you should get a doctor's appointment!
From,
~Chelly~
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i have a friend who cuts, she hasnt since the summer but today she came into shcool and told me one of my other really good friends and one of her really good friends and made us sweare we wouldnt tell anyone or shed kill us type of thing.....the whole thing is me and my friend dont know exactly how we should help her we know she wants the help but we cant figure out how to...is there anyone with any experience with this that has any sugestions that worked? were all really confsued as to how to solve this and we know that we cant force her to get help but sugest it and jsut be there for her and tlak to her but there has to be somthing more we can do (link)
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Well this is a good subject i'm good at. I've dealt with 2 of my friends that were cutters and i've helped them not to cut it wasn't easy but i did it also i've been a cutter. Well there is some advice that i can give you well first of all you have to understand cutting and why they do it and you can't get mad at them because that makes them more upset. there already ashamed of themselves. Also you have to ask them if they really want to stop cutting or there just quiting because they don't want people to find out. Also you have to let her know that your there for her and instead of cutting that your there for her to talk to!!! it's ery important that part the greastest feeling for a cutter is knowing someone actually cares about you!!!!!!
and here are some thing you can tell her to do instead of cutting when she gets in the mood:
Rubberband: wear a rubber band around your wrist, you can pull it and snap it agaist you wrist as hard as you want
squeeze ice: take some ice in your hand and do it until it hurts.
draw on your wrists: if there one of those people that just enjoy seeing the blood and a little pain tell them to draw on there wrist with a red pen or mamrker or even food coloring.
wrip paper: take paper and wrip it
write in a journal: write in your journal how you feel and what really helps me is writing poetry but thats just how i am.
draw: draw a picture of the thing your mad at if your mad and stab it with a pen wrip it spit on it whatever pleases you.
from,
~!YOUR LITTLE HELPER!~
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