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hiii
im new to this website but im verry excited to answer questions, give advice, and hopefully help out as many people as i can!
im 16 years old, and
i basically live by the quote LIVE LAUGH LOVE.
ive been through many things throughout my life but i ended up going back to how things were at the beginning
im very family oriented althou i hated everyone in my family not so long ago, but i learned theyre always going to be there for you no matter what.
so just live life to the fullest, laugh && smile all the time, have a good time, enjoy life, dont ever stop yourself from loving someone, becuase love is amazing, and my greatest happiness would be if i helped you out =]

advice

i got caught with a drug and now all i want to do is put it all behind me. i never want to do it again but its hard because some of my friends still do it. i need distractions or something. how do i keep myself away from drugs?

i have a couple of suggestions for you. i mean i dont know you but i hope one these may help you out. you could try to find yourself new friends, dont ditche the old ones- or just yet.. simply try to find other people that you may have a little more in common with now, find new friends that arent involved into those drugs and are focused on other things. now i know this may sound stupid but you can start a sport or hobby, something new youve been wanted to try for a while, that way you can be busy and if you dont want to hang out wit that group of friends one day that do the drugs you can say your busy doing whatever it is you get into and then youll get out of feeling uncomforable around them. a great help for yourself would b if you set your mind and body to the goal that you wont get yourself involved again. if you realli set your mind to it you can be around your friends that do the drug wit the ability to say no the drug, but if you feel the temptation will be too big then try to get yourself out of hte situation. now i dont know you, or your beliefs or anything, but you could also think about joining a religion or somethning bigger around you that can help guide you. a youth group perhaps, there you will meet tons of new people that may even b in your same situation and you can make new friends and they can help you out as well. if you have a God or a community in which you slowly start to believe in they can help you to stop yourself and to realized that you dont need those things and can do other things with your time. hope i helped =]

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