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Hey there! No need to let you know my entire life story, but I'm a psych buff with a good ear. I won't pretend to have absolute intel on everything, because I'm not a narcissist ;) But I can tell you I have a lot of knowledge and insight into mental health, relationships, sex, bisexuality, pets, and am good at listening to any problem and giving the best insight I'm capable of.
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Is it weird to get aroused to the thought of someone hurting me? Not like beating me, but like during sex taking a knife and making little cuts just enough to where they bleed? I mean, im 13.... I really shouldn't have these thoughts. I also get aroused when i think of a guy... like dominating me. Its just weird. And i live in a house hold where if there's something wrong, and you need to go to a therapist of be on depression meds you get disowned and thrown out of the family. And you'll get sent to a far away school where you'll live there. Its happened to my sister betheny and my cousin Danny.... What should i do?
Okay, so heres the thing. While some might tell you that thats highly disturbing or not okay, it is. It sounds as if you just have a sexual preference. A lot of people like BDSM, and are big fans of the Dom/Sub concept. What you're telling me just implies to me you would be interested in some light BDSM when having sex, which is perfectly okay.
However. I believe that 13 is too young to be attempting to try and live out these fantasies. Wait a few years, then have sex, and then put your sexual preference to use. It dosent make you disturbed, you don't need therapy, and you don't even need to tell your family as your sexual preferences are your buisness.
However, it is my personal opinion that at 13, you should keep it all as fantasy for now. Think about it if you like. Just don't act on it for a couple years.