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Hi there. I'm DeAnna. I love helping people, i love my boyfriend so much && my friends. I love music&pictures. I would like to move to London when i get older.

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I'm always negative. I can not accept myself the way I am. I'm a 116-117lb girl who thinks they're fat. I think I'm ugly. No matter how many compliments I get, I always disagree. I worry about everything. I always think my boyfriend/mother is going to die in a car accident. I seriously can not control these thoughts. I REALLY want to not think this anymore. Is this a mental problem? I don't know what I should do; I can't really see a counsler, because I'd have a hard time explaining to my mother.

What can I do?

Thank you so much.

being negative about yourself isnt a mental problem, infact your problem isnt a mental problem..you just have to gain some confidence. just try to think about some positives, you have a boyfriend so you aren't ugly. your weight isnt fat at all. think about it. maybe make a change if you have to?. do your hair differently or get new clothes or wear different make-up(if you wear any) theres a lot of things you can do to make yourself feel better inside.and you say you'd have a hard time explaining it to your mother?. thats normal. maybe talk to a close friend about it?.
good luck

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