im a laid back chic, that a lot of people come to when they need help, or if they just need someone to talk to .. im easy to talk to .. and i try to keep my friends .. and i will let them make a mistakes to a certain point .. but i love giving advice .. im the type of person that has been in a lot of peoples shoes, and if i havent, then i can try to put myself into their shoes .. *
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Ive been having like really low self esteme issues for like the past year or so... ive done so much physical harm to myself but i know its not right.. but i keep doing it cuz its like an addiction.. in the past year my best friend killed herself..(over me to try and get me to stop) and ive been in an abusive relationship.. everything has just put me down.. even the smallest things.. and i dont ever seem to be happy anymore.. i dont know what to do anymore.. sometimes i think that life is just like a dream.. is there any way i could help this?? (please dont say a councelor ive tried many and none have helped)... (link)
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you dont need a counselor .. first thing .. start thinking about a positive thing about yourself .. say you have an awesome smile, or great eyes .. just start thinking positive .. second .. you really need to get out of the abusive relationship .. ive been in your shoes .. ive been through counselors so i know how much you hate them, cuz i hate them to .. if you lost your friend, by her trying to show you the pain she feels for you, wouldnt you thought that the pain you went through is how ur friends felt ? .. a counselor wont help you .. the best thing is just to get someone you can talk to .. i.e. a friend .. a cousin .. and brother .. someone you can trust not to say anything, that you can call at any hour of any day just to talk .. thats the best thing *
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