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Hello!! I am Starfire! Don't ask why the name is StarfireandSakura, cause I won't tell you. Anyway, sometimes I'm gothic... well, actually I'm gothic all the time, only sometimes I kinda am completely and utterly dark. My fave color is black, and I like Evanescence and Linkin Park.

SHOUT OUT: After I said that I was mad at her on my column, vballbabe021 replied: "Fuck off, bitch." She's SO nice, isn't she?

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I don't believe in myself..I have very low self esteem..I feel horrible about myself most of the time..How can I boost my confidence..It's not as easy as it sounds..I don't know what to do..I have no friends and my parents (esp. my mom) tells me I'm useless and ugly) I get made fun of all the time..no wonder my self esteem is so low..How can I boost my confidence..All I want to do is feel superior just once..please help

Wow, you have nice parents. Anyway, one choice is to find someone with lower self esteem than you do. I do not recommend this. I think when you do something you should believe that you can do it to the fullest. That's my advice.

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To be honest with you I feel a bit unhappy generally. I don’t know why- ive always felt like this really. It comes and goes.

The only way I can explain it is I feel this kind of indifference to everything, like I don’t care about anything. Numb. And then all of a sudden I get incredibly upset and angry - i really feel for people and try and help them, and sometimes i think nasty things about people. I sometimes take it out on people im close to and then regret it and feel guilty. Its like im constantly frustrated, like there is something inside that I can’t resolve. I feel like there is a gap somewhere needing to be filled and my heart is heavy with sorrow for some strange reason! I just feel like im different to others and it weighs me down. Maybe someone out there understands and can offer advice? Im 29 years old.

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Well, I kinda have the same problem. My advice is that as soon as you get in a bad mood, try to control it. If you can't, get away to a secluded area. If you can't get away, then just try to barely move or say anything and throw it off.

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