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I am always getting myself in incredibly embarassing situations. Not like "farting in public" or anything like that, more like a really bad rumor has been spread about me. Or I accidentally say something bad in class and I'm worried about what the teacher thinks. Recently, my dad said something really embarassing (something serious) about me to my English teacher, and it makes me cringe with worry. Nowadays, I spend all of my free time thinking that I've "blown it" with someone I know and stressed that I've ruined a connection with someone because of something that I accidentally said or did. I lose sleep over it. I feel terrible. I'm 13/f. What can I do? How can I make amends? Pleaaaase don't give me a smart-ass answer if you're the funny-type columnist. Generally I enjoy those kinds of answers, but this is really serious. (link)
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Plain and simple. Stop giving a crap what people think. All you must please is yourself. and seeing as how you're only 13, you have yet to experience the GREAAAAT joys of high school.I can assure you, the whole worrying about blowing things increases tenfold in high school. Chances are, everyone else is too worried about their reputation to actually think twice about yours. no one cares about anyone but themselves, and if they do care at all, it's usually about the negatives. Just the facts of life.
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