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Im 14 years old. and im so prude (scared to kiss and stuff) and i was in a relation ship with someone the other day we were going out for a while. he broke up with me because i wouldnt kiss him. He kept asking when hes gonna get his kiss. and i would say idk. and he would hate it . he would get so close to my face to kiss me and i would say stop. Idk what to do. i reallly wanna have my first kiss =/

Make yourself confterble around him, you need to loosen up and find the right position. Let him go 90% and you follow 10% ( he leans in 90 percent and then you just go 10 percent ) Cause he honestly wants to kiss you, and if hes in love with you, you should be happy and want him to show it.

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Ill cut it short.
I love him.
We dont talk anymore , we used to be really good friends.
We had sex and all that stuff .
He has a girlfriend, they have a horrible relationship.
He stares at me at lunch.
Why why why?

ps, we dont talk alot anymore becuase we dont live as close anymore and a few other reasons.

He has feelings for you. Thats why he stares at you. He probably doesn't know you still have feelings for him so he isnt making a move. Make a move and show him you still love him.

Hope I helped =)

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15/f

okay well there's this guy that likes me and he's going to ask me out i know it because he's already tried but i have no intrest in him but he's just not my type.

he's also in some classes for the slower pple and i don't know him too well so i don't know what to say in rejecting him.

whoa that sounds harsh please help!

Try

* Id rather be just friends for now. ( then add the pretty sorry comment in your soft voice)

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