hey this is jusz a place to ask me ?'sz bout ne thyng u want to..ill do my best to try n help u much love
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Age: 16
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.. Alright.. Im NOT going out with this kid but we have been talking and getting really close and i like offered to give him head and we're gunna like do stuff and if you knew me you would know i was just playing around.. and then we got serious.. He looks me in the eye and tells me he loves me im not actaully 100% sure if he means it but i want to because i am like so inlove with him.. He kind of is an asshole to me but he says he only does it for jokes and we will spend nights online or on the phone until like 5:00 in the morning and its hard to hang up with eachother.. But if he loves me why isn't he going out with me .. see the problem is i had him once before.. He really hurt me so bad i tried to f*cking cut myself up (stupid thing to do over a guy) I just feel like he has changed and i feel a connection with us .. and when i see him in person he tells me im beautiful he really respects me but.. I don't want to give him head for no reason i mean were not even going out and seeing as im 16 its not the biggest deal ever but it is pretty big.. for me because i am really like non-slutty is that considered slutty to give a blow job and not be going out with someone?.I wouldn't want to be thought of as a slut to please the guy i like no way! ..So.. Sorry this is so Long but.. My mayjor question is after reading all of this.. Do you think we should "do stuff" With eachother .. thanks so much in advance!! =)!
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weLL if u wanna do stuff with him..do it jusz bcuz of tha physical connecton u guys have dont do it bcuz u believe he loves u...but i have a lot of experience with guys and in reality their diccs n they will say ne thyng to get their "word" means nothing cuz guys thynk with sum...so its your choice if u wanna give him head but make sure u actually WANT to do it..n dont let him pressure u 2 mess around but make sure u get sumthing in return from him...but seriously girl, dont take wut he says too serious cuz if and when thyngs cum to an end with u guys....u will b soo much more hurt than he will...and it will continue to affect u..when more than likely he would b over it quicc...but jus do wutever feels ryte to u..but i dont understand if he loves u n he is so sweet to u..why doesnt he want u to b his girl? cuz it sounds pretty serious n it seems like if he really feels that stroungly about u he would want u guys to b togehter u kno?..but hope i helped n post bacc if u want much love
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Hey.. i was wondering if you could help. well im 16 and me and my bf have been going out for about 5 months now. but every time im with him we get a little more and more sexualy feely kinda and i have this feeling next time im with him he might try to maybe finger me or i might do some stuff to him. but well ive never done those before and im kinda scared. im not shaved down there but im goin to try it cause i really like him and i want to kinda take it to the next level. i was just wondering if u could help cause im kinda nervous and im not sure what to expect? do u think u could help with some things to do also?? thx 4 everything!! (link)
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well i thynk u should shave cuz guys liike it so yeahh...but dont trip about it...juss like do tha minor stuff liek fingering n hand jobs for now..but i dont kno wut ur askin specifically...so if i didnt help post bacc much love
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what are some things u can do to make dry sex better? i know its a simple concept but i mean theres gotta be something u can do to spice it up a bit right? (link)
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well it kinda makes it better if u jusz kiss n like liicc on his neck or juss kiss or lightly succ..lol hope i helped..much love
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i dont know how to makeout!! help me plz!! :-/ (link)
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you juss kiss him..like sum with tongue n juss open mouth kissing it isnt hard..u juss kinda do wut cums naturally...n u can kinda lightly bite his bottom lip..guys like it..haha n u can kiss his neck too..much love
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hey well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about a month and a week .. and i really like him * but hes 14 he looks hella good i mean alot of girls wanna get the hook up wit him .. but hes a virgin..at first b4 me and him started goin out i didnt think i was gonna really like him but now hes all i think about and u see ..im not a virgin and he is but im like not really sure how to tell if he wants to have sex yet .. but ive had it like 6 or 7 times .. and i really need to get some soon,.. how do i make him hard or get in the right mood to actaully wanna have sex?? please someone!??! (link)
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haha...well i thynk u should ask him if hes ready to actually do that..if u guys have already messed around sexually then i dont thynk he would have ne problem with doing that..but if he wants to wait u should respect his decision. but b up front about it n b like yeahh i kinda wanna take thyngs a lil further n see how he reacts to it..lol good luck n much love*
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ok... so i had sex for the first time awhile ago.. and we did it twice.. he used condoms both times and before i was freakin out cuz i thought i was pregnet .. i really dont think i am tho. my periodscomming real soon and im gettin all the symptoms i usally get when it comes.. so im ok right? (link)
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thats pretty normal a lot of girls trip about being pregnant but im pretty sure that if u used condoms both tymes and u arent late on ur period u are fyne..lol theres nuthyn to sorry about..much love
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im posting back about goin on the pill and im 14 but i do have a bf and weve been together for over 5 months but i dont know how my mom will react to that...
but im from new york and there is a planned parenthood here but its like a half hour from here and theres rilly no way i could get there w/ out her knowing bc its not like i can drive you kno (link)
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oh uh huh..well if there is really no way to get to planned parenthood then i thynk u should just tell your mom...bcuz it may seem like a big deal to her n she may b mad about it now...but i know that if u were to tell her u were pregnant it would b MUCH more of a disappointment..i thynk u should say that u do have a boyfriend and even tho sex may not b in the near future u want to b prepared...and see how so reacts to that..much love n good luck..post bacc if u have ne other ?'sz
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me n my bf were laying on eachother w/ are pants and underwear off and he was like rubbing on me but i didnt wanna have sex bc i dont wanan get pregnat...(im a virgin) and after i was like wet from his cum and i was wonderin is it possible that im pregnat bc it didnt go in me but sumone told me that i do have a chance and i dont get how i could be pregant if im a virgin ya know? plz help and thanks (link)
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aww thanx hunni...but um there is a very small chance that his sperm could have gotten into u..b cuz it has to go all tha way up until it reaches one of ur eggs for u to be pregnant...n the biggest chance of u gettin pregnant is if he went up inside of u bcuz it wouldnt have to travel far..so i thynk u are ok. but if u skip periods or sumthyng like that then i would go n take an at home pregnancy test just in case..but maybe it would b a good idea to look into the pill or sum other form of birth control..post bacc if u need ne other help..much love
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i dont wanna have sex until i go on the pill and im thinking about having sex...but im to skared to ask my mom about it...shes just not the understanding type you know wat i mean? im so skared to ask her please help me:-( (link)
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well i juss wanna say that i give u credit for wanting to make sure u are using sum form of birth control b4 u actually start having sex...but u should also use a condom to prevent getting sTd's...but from x perience i can say that if u are straight up with ur mom and tell her that u are thynking of having sex and u want to b prepared. she will most likely understand. but i thynk ur age and relationship status is also sumthyng to consider...so if u dont have a boyfriend and u are kinda young i wouldnt tell her...but u yourself can get birth control from a clinic without ur parents knowing..but it depends on wut state u live in..so if u wanna post bacc where ur from i could give u more info..much love
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Hey...I really can't get a tampon in without it hurting me...is this going to be a problem when I have sex or get fingered...it really hurts to get a tampon in and im stuck wearing diaper pads!! how can i get them in or make myself loose!! (link)
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i thynk that maybe u should juss use tha slim tampons to start with becuz when u first start puttin thyngs up there it is going to hurt b cuz ur walls of ur vagina havent been stretched at all...n u should gradually start going to regulars. and to tell u tha truth...sex and getting fingered hurts to begin with ne ways...it happens with every girl. so the only thyng that can help you get more loose is juss actually getting fingered n having sex bcuz tha walls of ur vaginia are a muscle so thats why it hurts to put thyngs in there that are too big..hope i helped..much love
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me and my boyfriend have done like everything and i just got a mayjor surgury and i really shouldnt be having sex or him fingering me or anything. and he doesnt understand and trys to get me horny anyways. how can i tell him, i dont think my surgury is going to fully work if he keeps doin this:-/. hope you can help, thanks so0 much (link)
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aww...well it kinda depends wut kinda surgery it is...n how unsafe it could be...but seriously i thynk u should juss talk to him and b like 4realsz this is a major surgery n i kno that it isnt fair to u but its important to me that it works and i can heal the full amount of tyme i need to...n if he doesnt understand than maybe u should thynk about ur guys`z relationship b cuz if wut hes doing is uncomfortable than he needs to respect n listen to wut u tell him...much love
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ok..my b/f wnats to eat meeh out but i dutn shave down there nd i really dunt wanna start but i dunnoo...do u think its gross if i dont..or should i juss shave it nd get it over with?> (link)
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yeahhh...hahah guys kinda get grossed out if it isnt shaved n they dont really want a bunch of hair up in their mouth haha...but if u really dont want to...then u should jusz ask him and see if he cares or if he doesnt mind lol...but hit me up if u have ne more ?'s much love
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well you know them websites, i can't get on them at all, i have huge blocking systems, could you post some for me?
i'd love you foreverrrrr
o0oxXxo0o (link)
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ill do it on hellz angels aiight?
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Gender:Female
Age:13
Hey,Me and my boyfriend are going to the movies on monday and he said he wants to do more than watch the movie(Thats like making out right?)Well I dont rele know how to french kiss.I need techniques or something...can you help?
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i jusz answered lol..look
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I'm Female. and I'm 13
Hey...Me `n my boyfriend are goin to the movies on monday and he said he wants to do more than watch the movie...(meanin he wants to makeout right?) Well...I dont rele know how to french kiss..what are some techniques or something? (link)
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i kinda answered u on that website but um ne thyng u do he will like...dont stress about it, cuz that will make it bad...mostly juss like use ur tongue n play around lightly succ on his bottom lip...stuff like that...but dont like use too much tongue cuz thats gross..lol n it can get messy. take turns like kissin (nots pecs..like mouth open) but with lil or no tongue...and you can kiss his neck n stuff lol guys like it...but yeahh hope i helped n hit me up again if u need ne more help..much love
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