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hEy...well 0kay..i guess i`m pretty y0ung..but a l0t 0f people tell me that i shud bec0me a therapist s0meday...really th0..i wanna maj0r in psych0logy...n0body rEally kn0wz that tho..well n0w` they d0 i guess..anyway...f0r fun? i like t0 kickk it wit my friEndz` 0r my b0yfriend kevin`...hez 0ne in a milli0n. i l0ve writin` en...i live f0r music..on tha rEal. but Eniway..enuf ab0ut me...ima try t0 help y0u tha best that i caN...in h0pez that maybe y0u can help me...iight th0..d0nt be shy..hit me up 0n AiM if itz hella imp0rtant. ...`1luv
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i've kinda been messin around with this guy for about a month now, I really like him a lot, and hes nice to me and treats me right and stuff, but we've never talked about having a relationship, but he wants to take our physical relationship to the "next level" and I dont know what to do because I won't do that with him if I'm not even sure that he likes me, what I really need help with, how do I talk to him about this, I know that I've already messed up by having a physical relationship with him, but if you were me, you might understand? but I just want to tell him how I feel and I don't really want to do anything with him unless he really likes me, but.. I want to tell him that in a way that won't be weird for either of us you know? sorry if this is complicating but you seem like you know what you're talking about (btw if it helps 15/f)
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first of all...you said..."if you were me"...if i was you..i wudn`t have started a physical relationship with someone...I know you want guys to respect you, and you make it difficult for them when you mess around with them...without even talking about getting commited. basically...you guys are mess around buddies..so far. Now...If I were you (again)..i would tell him there's no more messing around unless a relationship starts..i wud tell him that you feel like you messed up for starting it anyway..but you really like him now, and you dont want him to leave just because you w0nt do stuff with him...there's the test to see if he likes you. If he tells you he doesn't want a relationship and just stops takling to you...well..the answers obvious. But who knows? Maybe he'll come around to getting commited. You DEFINITLY should tell him EXACTLY how your feeling, and show a little respect for y0urself girl...y0u desserve it...stand up t0 him a little bit...i kn0w it feels like y0ur bein used rite n0w...it shudn`t feel like that..it shud have NEVER felt like that...just tell him that. hope i helped...keep str0ng :)...x0.
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15 female
thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...
do i still have feelings for him? (link)
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...itz 0bviouse y0u d0..if he has tha p0wer t0 d0 abs0lutely n0thin` just to make y0u cry. if y0u even have tha th0t of maybe havin` feelinz f0r him..y0u do..u shudn't even have t0 ask y0urself. if y0u give it time...it might g0 away...but if y0u feel like y0u d0nt want it to..y0u need to c0nsider talkin` t0 him and tellin` him wassup..and even if he d0esn`t feel tha same way tell him y0u d0nt feel c0mfortable wen he talks t0 y0u ab0ut 0ther girls...d0nt be fake ab0ut it...itz a big turn 0n if y0ur h0nest and true...h0pe i helped. =]
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I talk to this guy all the time and he wants to date me. I kinda like him to...The problem: everytime we talk he only seems to be interested in what im wearing. Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get with me. Could he just be making conversation? What do I do? (link)
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i`ll answer y0ur questi0n...hez N0t f0r real..at least fr0m wat i`ve g0tten. y0u g0tta kn0w a guy wh0 starts 0ff with c0nversati0ns like wat are y0u wearin...is g0nna end up with NO conversati0n..and y0u wearin` n0thin at all f0r him t0 even ask. TRUST ME...d0nt give in t0 him...let him kn0w y0ur n0t g0nna take his shit...maybe he c0ntinues t0 do it because y0ur g0in` al0ng with it s0o he thinkz y0ure n0t g0nna ever say n0thin`...maybe y0u shud pr0ve him wr0ng..be str0ng babiigurL..=]`1
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i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious? (link)
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Dont worry...
if y0u're anywhere cl0se to my age...it`s c0mpletely n0rmal. Every single girl on the face of this earth has insecurities..n0 matter h0w beautiful she is...and tha fact that pe0ple tell y0u y0u`re pretty after y0u ask..d0esn`t help much. The only boost we ever actually get t0 let us kn0w we`re pretty is wen s0meone rand0mally tellz us..isn`t that true? y0u can say it`z n0t but y0u really kn0w it is. but h0nestly...be y0urself because if y0ur n0t y0urself and y0ur still self c0ncious...there`s tha way t0 fix it..wats tha p0int 0f bein s0meone else and n0t likin` it? just d0nt ask pe0ple t0o much if they think y0ur pretty bcuz s0metimes that can make it w0rse...try n0t to think ab0ut it too much..if y0u are self conci0us d0nt kill y0urself 0ver it..every0ne g0es thru it. s0me pe0ple get it f0rever...but itz human nature y0u can`t change it...g0od luck th0 =]`1
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i have just turned 16, well i have liked this girl for i dont no about a year and a half, shes one of the most amazing girls i no, shes perfect, strong chrisitian, volleyball player, straight A student, beautiful, wonderful family, but she uses the esxcuse to good of friends everytime i want to talk about us dating, we are best friends, and by that i mean extrmely tight, im really lost right now, because i think about her constantly, should i stick with her, or should i try to move on, by the way we have never actually been together before (link)
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hEy...
well i h0pe this helps =]. From a girls point of view..let me tell you exactly whats going on in her head. She feels that she knows you too well..and in every relationship..if u kno someone too well before u start dating..things end up not working out. The best part of a relationship is finding out new things about the person day-by-day...its m0re exciting. Plus...girls become attatched to there guy friends very easily..and they know..or assume..that if they end up going out, and things crash..it will be weird being friends again in the end. If a guy starts off as a really good friend... it`s best for US..if he remains just a really good friend...good luck tho...d0nt give up if u have faith..that's all that matters sometimes. hope i helped..`1
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17-f
I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
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See...I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now..but even when i was with him for 3 months..i cud never see myself talking to another guy like that. Maybe you need to realize that you're obviously not in love with both of them, because if you think about it, you're kind of playing both of them. Also...If you're basically going behind your boyfriends back to talk to this guy, there's not much of a future for u and ur ex..because later on in your relationship (if u even have one)..he's going to think about what you're actually capable of doing to him...he will start thinking about what you did to your current boyfriend...and it will effect him a lot. that's all I can give you for now.
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