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i'm samantha
but people usually call me sam // sami
i will be 15 in april [ less than a month ]
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i play softball alot and its pretty much my life
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Okay I was going out with my boyfriend for like 2 1/2 to 3 months and then I broke up with him because he was just not working out for me. But the worst thing is that he was my best friend and now it is kinda akward when we talk if we even talk at all. And he thinks I hate him because I don't talk to him all the time and i don't hate him I just dont have anything to say to him anymore. I just kinda need to know what do to here.
thx

well i think you should email him..or write him a note saying your feelings...like that you dont hate him..you miss hangin out w/him as a best friend..ask him if you guys can just forget that you guys went out..maybe that will help
good luck
EX 0H---->SAM

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Okay, so obviously by this title you know I'm a girl.

Well, I think I'm starting to have my first crush on another girl and I feel so weird because... well, she's a girl. (If that makes any sense).

What I mean by that is that I feel uncomfortable thinking I like a girl.

Is that so wrong?

Let me explain my feelings about her.

When I'm around her, I feel totally comfortable (sometimes I'll start to worry about how I look, because she's so gorgeous, but... that may exactly be it; I worry about my appearence because she's beautiful and maybe I'm just jealous) When I'm around her, I'm incredibly happy. When I haven't seen her in days I get sad and I miss her when I think about her.

This could just be a big mis-interpretation. Maybe I just admire her and love her as a friend and nothing more.

There are times when I think I don't like her, but then later I'll start thinking "WTF? Who are you kidding? You DO like her" and so on, until the point where I start denying it again, and... I'm just really, really confused... and I don't like any of this bi-thing (yes, I AM into guys, so yeah) at all...

What do I do? Any advice given will be much appreciated.

Thank you.

- jenixx

well..i honestly dont think that your bi..the feelings your having..i think shes just like a really good friend to you..like a best friend...if your having like fantasies (ex: kissing her, touching..etc) then you may be bi-sexual..and if you are..well then you mite want to maybe come out of your shell a little bit..if you know what i mean..you dont have to tell your friend you like her like her..but you could tell you close friends and maybe her that your bi...it mite feel alot better to you
i really hoped i helped!
EX 0H----->SAM

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k hey guys... im 15 and a female..so i realy like this guy..i've liked him for over a year now but i dont know how he feels about me..me and him have been so tight with one another last year but this year we've grown apart and he said hes "not really" my friend when my friend asked him..and last year he's been calling me his sister and he even said i was alright! also we talked every single day.. so anyway i don't know what happened and it really upsets me cause he'd give me these long stares and i feel really long stares that make me feel uncomfortable, then he'd approach me the next day and ask me to buy him something. and i dont know what to think or do! i want to talk to him but i notice he acts very different around his friends, and he's more of himself when he's alone. if he tells his friends what i told him, i'd have to deal with them cause most of them are in my classes.
anyway i really really LOVE this guy and i've never loved anyone this much...someone please help me cause i cant figure him out..what would you do?

ok...yew should talk to him..and ask him wats goin on? and explain the things hes been doing and how it makes yew feel...if he keeps doin these things...i hate to say it but you mite have to try to forget about him..i bet after yew do..you'll be alot happier
EX 0H---->SAM

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