Hey my name is Ashlei im 15..i have blonde hair and blue eyes and im 5'5...i love talkin to people and hanging out with my friends ...i love talkin on the fone nd the computer. i also love helping people with different things and i rlly understand alot..but yah hit me up....Ashlei Lynn__xO
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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I would tell him her plan..and be like i wouldnt lie to you i love you more then anything and that shes a backstabber..and shes all pissed and i have a feeling shes jealous...but all you can do is talk to him and let him know that shes gunna try and mess shit up for you guys..im sorry about this i hope i helped...*!*Ashlei*!*
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im 14 and female
ashlei i dont know what to do?? i mean ive like this guy for a long time like 3 for years and out of those ive seen him ONCE! but hung out...and then we have lost contact with eachother but now just 2 days ago out of the blue he called me and we started talking again...he just came out of a relationship with this other gurl and a day ago i practically snuck out of my house just to go spend time with him and hang out..and im to scared or more nervous to tell him that ive liked him all along...i might see him tomorrow and his actions kinda show that he likes me but im not to sure...so overall ive seen him 2 times and maybe a third tomorrow...i just dont know how to tell him!!! ughh sorry its kinda long but ill love you ashlei if u could give me soome good advice?? (link)
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Well...be yourself around him and show him that you do like him but dont be all up on him and stuff unless hes all over you..Guys are hard to detect feelings with..they are more complicated then girls are..i mean he could act like he likes when he rlly doesnt..if you know what i mean..but kinda give him hints that you like him er maybe sit down and talk to him about it..theres not much more i can think about..bue i wish you good luck with him...
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ok...one of my ex's moved to maine and i miss him alot but im afraid that if i tell him that then he'll think i want him back..idk if he still likes me anymore and i dont know if he's got another girlfriend..the problem is he went out wid one of my friends right after i dumped him...i wish i never dumped him i dont know what to say to him!!PLZZ Help Ashlei....:-/
I LOVE U SOO FUCKING MUCH ASHLEI LYNN DOEL!! (link)
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i dont rlly know what to tell you but to talk to him about it and let him know how you fell and how a long dinstance relationship woulddnt work soo you cant take him back..there not much else i could say....~Loves Ashlei~
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umm ok there is this guy that ive jus started hanging out w/ since a long ass time ago and like i looked at him as a brother b4 and now, i think i like him. what do i do? should i tell him? like talk to him about it or jus see what happens when we chill again? (link)
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Well i would tell him and trust that he would be like freaked out er ne thing ang jus let it go from telling him and talkin to him..who knows maybe he feels the same way you do!
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3 people know. i got raped a couple months ago. I've had 2 boyfriends since then, and the one i'm with now knows, but hes only the 2nd person i told. i told my best friend last week, and it happened months ago. i wont do ne thing wiht my boyfriend now cuz im scared. i kno he woudlnt do ne thing 2 hurt me, but still its just the thought that scares me...i don't know wut 2 do we've been 2gether like a month and i wont even make out with him...what do i do?! ashlei lynn i love you PLEASE help me! :( (link)
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well...its gunna be hard but you have to get over yur fear and try it and if yu get the feeling like you got when yu were raped then tell him..if he cares enough he wont be bothered by it and he will love you for who you are..i mean yur a great girl and i love you to death and i would do ne thing to help you. love you hunni i hope i helped its not much but i know the guy and i think hes very understanding...Loves Ash!
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Love-Ok my boyfriend keeps on making promises to me and then breaking them, or making me feel like he cares and then blowing it up in my face! it rlly hurts an di dont no what to do! I deffinetly dont want to leave him and i love him with everything ive got, but its rlly hard not Knowing how he feels and i dont no what to say to him! WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLZ HELP?!
Friends- ok there are these two girls that i miss So much and ive known one of them longer then the other but i love both of them the same! And i feel like im loosing both of them, Excpeacially the one that ive known like my whole life! I mean i think that they still love me as a friend and everything but i miss not talking to them as much and diff. schools just tare us all apart! WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLZ HELP?! (link)
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Ok..well for one talk to the guy..make him realize wat hes doin to you..and on the friends part talk to them tell you wanna hang out with them more and jus talk alot...i mean idk wat else more to say ~Hope i helped~ Ashlei
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ok, im goin to come out very bluntly and say yes i have a kid and im 14, i mean im a kid myself incase ur wonderin im a guy so i dont noe what to do, my parents dont noe and i am goin to tell them but i dont noe how and ill figure that out just i dont noe what to do about my child, should i help pay for things. i so want to but she wont let me. she said she can deal with it on her own and i know she can't. so how should i deal with this sittuation. pppllleeeaaassseee help me i dont noe what to do (link)
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Well..for one your extremly young.but thats not the point..but yes you should be a father to the child and help pay for things like food or diapers the lil nessecities and when the mother needs you to help her you should do the best you can to help her out with the child. And if its possible have the mother and yur parents all sit down and talk about it..if its possible you should try and stay with the girl atleast for the baby's sake..i rlly hope yu can use this..
*«*Ashlei Lynn*»*
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Okaii well, yooh knoe who ii am but yeah ii`m not quna realese mii iidentiity or however yooh spell iit.
But okaii thiiSz miite be kiina loonq -- Sorriie.
ii`m biisexual. ii had thiis qurl friiend ( ii`ll just call her " D " ). Okaii well ii had asked her a couple tiimeSz would she not be happiier wiith her ex ( well call her " KE " ). And then so we broke up cause she saiid iit seemed ii diidn`t trust her. Okaii then she told meh about 2 weekSz aqo that she`d thiink over niite about us qoiinq back out. Well she qot on the iinternet the next daii and she hadda new qurl friiend ( well call her " K " ). Well they been qoiinq out liike a month and " D " tellSz meh that when her and " K " break up were qunna qo back out. But last niite ii was readiinq " D "`Sz xanquh about how " KE " stiill`Sz loveSz " D " and then " D " left " KE " a comment sayiinq how do yooh knoe that ii don`t stiill love yooh nd alla thiiSz thiiSz. and todaii ii asked " D " what was up and she was liike * why doeSz iit matter * and yeah so then she wouldn`t talk to meh the resta tha niite. And stiill hasn`t. Help ??
Okaii on to one of mii other problemSz =/ ...
Mii mom iis a druqqiie and she beatSz meh when sheSz on the druqSz. and one niite she passed out ( not liiterally but feel asleep ) and yeah we had thiiSz quy over here and he raped meh and ii thiink ii miite be preqnant. Help ???
On to the last one ...
ii wanna do suiiciide. Help ?? (link)
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Love~well om the girl problem i would say give it time and when you do talk to her dont bring up the other girls and like dont talk about yur past together and things will get better be the girl she got to know...
Home~Theres rlly nuttin you can do about yur moms habits but try not to egg her on like make her mad or suttin and it mite calm down but on the pregnant hand you have to go to the drugstore and get a pregnancy test and take it with you to a friends house like "J" spend the night there and take it when yu first wake up in the morngin..if thats not possible then go to yur doctors and talk to her about it and have a blood test done...
Suicide~Its not the answer to all yur problems.i mean a cut here and there helps i mean i admit ive dont it but dont kill yurself. i know yur life is hell but its all part of being a teenager in todays reality do ne thing but kill youself..
I Hope i was somewhat of a help
~Ashlei Lynn__xO
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ok...well there is this guy and i kinda like him and he likes me. The problem is that there is this other guy that i like more, but i don't think i have too much of a chance with him so i'm starting to think i should jus give up on him. He is my friend though. The person that likes me is my ex-boyfriend and he wants another chance but i'm not sure what i should do. The reason i broke up with him last time was because i still really like that other guy and i didn't really want a boyfriend. I think he's gonna ask me out again and i jus really don't know what to do or what to say. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! (link)
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Well i would say go with the one yu think would treat yu better. Because the better he treats yu the longer it would last. But go with you heart and dont jus follow yur mind cuzz it may not lead yu to the right wat. i hope i helped...~Ashlei Lynn__xO
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